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| Author: | Moscow [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 7:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when a girl "Flakes" for valid reasons? |
So straight to the story....Girl that I met at work really likes me, I knew this from day one, so I did some light texting with her, and she would often snapchat me on her own first. Every time, I was kind of sitting back letting her do the work as I knew she likes me and it was a lay up. The first time she asked to hangout I said sure, two days before the date approached, she said she couldn't hangout on that day because she had a game that night so she couldn't go out. I play it cool because it wasn't really a big deal and tell her "Okay that's chill saturday works too", she replies "Alright that's good!" Now, it's friday, and she texted me this morning that her family member just showed up unexpectedly and they haven't seen him in many years so they are spending the weekend with him, so she obviously can't go out this weekend either, she sounded kind of disappointed and admitted that "you'll probably kill me for this...but". So I totally understand her situation, and at least she's letting me know days in advance that she can't hangout on a specific day....but it's annoying me that this has happened twice now in one week with the same girl that has been asking ME to hangout, she literally escalated on ME sexually through snaps and texts too, so I know its on... I would not even really call this a "flake" just an obstacle. How should I be reacting? Should I reschedule again for next week? Should I keep chatting her up every once in awhile? This is my first lay up with a really hot girl and I'm somewhat excited to hangout with her cuz I know it will go well. Also, I'm not getting onitis, this is a topic that I have always been curious about and it came up in my life now so I'm curious what y'all would do. |
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| Author: | ConfidenceMatters [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 8:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when a girl "Flakes" for valid reasons? |
If a girl wants to fuck you she'll find a way. That "sudden plans I forgot about" shit is just another excuse. Attention whore. Try again in 2 weeks. If she flakes again just forget about her. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 9:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when a girl "Flakes" for valid reasons? |
Easy solution for this mate. Here's a convo I had with a girl that flaked on me quite a while back. Her: hey I'm tired from the gym I don't know if I'm gonna be able to stay awake long enough to come out tonight. ( I'm certain this is total bs) Me: hey no worries a friend of mine has a fight tonight in Vegas a couple buddies are twisting my arm pretty hard to come along. )True story( Her: WHAT!!!!! VEGAS!!!!!! That's crazy!!!!! You better behave mister!!!! After that she was blowing up my phone, but I stopped replying because she is no longer on my priority list for that night. Next morning she couldn't text me fast enough to ask how my night was and if I behaved. And I'll tell you one thing she never flaked on me again. I find that routine effective whether her excuse is valid or not shows you have a life and social value. As far as what the above poster said if you take an approach like that you won't have to wait 2 weeks then contact her again she'll be after you. Plus nexting her for flaking for an apparent valid reason is stupid maybe maybe she is telling the truth and its just bad luck be persistent, but don't smother her. However if this is a constant problem I'd definitely consider other options. |
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