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I feel like eliminating/avoiding competition is just masking the problem. I have to somehow stand out from what girls apparently think are my better looking friends or react in a way that makes me shine over them.
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| Author: | Kylefreeman6775 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
I got a huge nose. Aside from it I consider myself a sexy guy. How ever apparently I'm not as sexy as I think. I work at a night club, and everytime I'm around another bouncer, the ladies will ALWAYS look at my friend. It bothers me and I try to play it cool, but I'm sure if they really analyze my face expression they could tell I'm bothered...and I try hard to keep a poker face but I'm sure I give micro face expressions initially. This fat girl, the kind of chick I would never want, walked past me and looked back at my friend like she was baaaad. It just annoyed me cause in my head I'm thinking how dare this 5 walk by and not look at me. Was she trying to make me jealous. It wouldnt be a big deal, but it happens all the time. This other dude I work by gets girls that give him there phone numbers and he doesnt do SHIT. Its simply off his looks. Worse part is I gotta stand next to him every day. When the girls talk to him I often notice them briefly dart there eyes at me (I'm thinking to see my reaction), and its soooo annoying. Or it could be me looking for things to help my crippled ego. I dont know what I have to do. Can I not be around guys at all anymore?...............more importantly what do I do when a girl blatantly ignores me and talks to the "cute" guys right next to me sometimes in the middle of a conversation like I'm not even there? I generally try and act like I dont notice, but my inner game is destroyed by the feeling of bitterness and annoyance and I don't think my acting is effective. Not sure what to do. Advice needed please. Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Hang out with fuck ugly PUA's. The kind of PUA that gives Freddy Kruger nightmares... |
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| Author: | Kylefreeman6775 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
I feel like eliminating/avoiding competition is just masking the problem. I have to somehow stand out from what girls apparently think are my better looking friends or react in a way that makes me shine over them. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: I feel like eliminating/avoiding competition is just masking the problem. I have to somehow stand out from what girls apparently think are my better looking friends or react in a way that makes me shine over them.
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 6:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: Quote: I feel like eliminating/avoiding competition is just masking the problem. I have to somehow stand out from what girls apparently think are my better looking friends or react in a way that makes me shine over them.
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| Author: | Kylefreeman6775 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 8:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
When I first read his story, I thought of myself and in some ways I'm like him to, 2 a much lesser degree and minus deep anger to kill, and I'm not a virgin and do get female attention. My anger is frustration, sadness that I can't be conventionally good looking and confusion. If I hung out with 50% of the dudes here my presence would bring them pussy with out them having to try hard. Girls are drawn even to my friends that arent even that good looking. Where ever I'm at its like the girls just tease me. My problem is girls talk to me, leave then fawn over another guy in front of me. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 8:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Lol i'm going to step away from this thread before I have to deal with police. |
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| Author: | Kylefreeman6775 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: When I first read his story, I thought of myself and in some ways I'm like him to, 2 a much lesser degree and minus deep anger to kill, and I'm not a virgin and do get female attention. My anger is frustration, sadness that I can't be conventionally good looking and confusion.
If I hung out with 50% of the dudes here my presence would bring them pussy with out them having to try hard. Girls are drawn even to my friends that arent even that good looking. Where ever I'm at its like the girls just tease me. My problem is girls talk to me, leave then fawn over another guy in front of me. |
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| Author: | JakeP [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 10:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
It's your insecurity they're smelling. Just start acting like you don't give a fuck about any of them, that they're all pieces of shit who should be thrilled to be in your presence. They're like cats, they will eventually pay attention to the person least interested in them. |
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| Author: | Melon91 [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 11:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: It's your insecurity they're smelling. Just start acting like you don't give a fuck about any of them, that they're all pieces of shit who should be thrilled to be in your presence. They're like cats, they will eventually pay attention to the person least interested in them.
I think this is true man, i kind of have the same feeling as you have (about the frustration and that kind of stuff, them choosing my friends over me), but I think it's just the insecurity and awkwardness that comes with it that they notice immediately. I don't know how to get rid of it but you've got to find a way to "loosen up" and , like others have said, honestly not give a shit.
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| Author: | JakeP [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 12:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: Quote: It's your insecurity they're smelling. Just start acting like you don't give a fuck about any of them, that they're all pieces of shit who should be thrilled to be in your presence. They're like cats, they will eventually pay attention to the person least interested in them.
I think this is true man, i kind of have the same feeling as you have (about the frustration and that kind of stuff, them choosing my friends over me), but I think it's just the insecurity and awkwardness that comes with it that they notice immediately. I don't know how to get rid of it but you've got to find a way to "loosen up" and , like others have said, honestly not give a shit. |
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| Author: | Hint [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 12:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: It's your insecurity they're smelling. Just start acting like you don't give a fuck about any of them, that they're all pieces of shit who should be thrilled to be in your presence. They're like cats, they will eventually pay attention to the person least interested in them.
A good way to do that is to focus on your job rather then the girls. I'm sure it sounds hard but really isn't.. Sooner or later you will start noticing all types of girls giving you attention. just do your job, your not there to look for girls your there to do a job. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 1:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Wahhhh! I'm ugly and all the cute guys get attention!!! WAhhhhH! You sound like a fucking female dude! Listen to what Hint said and just focus on doing your job. Why? Because at the club you work at.... You're an authority figure. You know what turns girls on? Not pretty boys... AUTHORITY FIGURES Lead the girls. Tell them what to do. That's how you make pussies drip. Not by being "pretty." Sure... They may look at him. Hell, they may even give him their numbers. But unless he's a fucking BOSS, he's not FUCKING them. And if he's not fucking them, none of that other shit matters. Quit whining. Learn what "paragraphs" are for. Work with what you've got as far as looks go. Work on your style and fashion to make yourself look your best. And for fucks sake... learn how to talk to girls instead of just trying to stand there looking pretty. You're gonna get old and ugly before just standing there waiting for pussy to fall in your lap is gonna pay off for you. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 1:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Sounds like your lack of confidence is effecting you alot more than your nose. 93% of communication is through tonality and body language. If you look un sociable and too stuck in your head about your own problems you'll never be able to attract women. You need to really shake off these limitations you're putting on yourself through inner game |
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| Author: | Kylefreeman6775 [ Sat Jul 19, 2014 7:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN ANNOYING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP |
Quote: Sounds like your lack of confidence is effecting you alot more than your nose. 93% of communication is through tonality and body language. If you look un sociable and too stuck in your head about your own problems you'll never be able to attract women. You need to really shake off these limitations you're putting on yourself through inner game
yes, I recently noticed this. When I think "fuck it" everything seems to work in my favor. Guess I'll fake it til I make it.
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