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Author:  chappelle [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 2:55 am ]
Post subject:  Problem believing I am attractive to girls
So lately I have been having considerable success with girls, but I seem to keep running into a problem that holds me back: I dont believe girls are into me. Later, while I am going over things, I realize yea this girl or that girl was into me, but at the moment I either didnt recognize it because I felt like I still had to game the girl, or I did recognize it but I just couldnt believe she actually liked me. If I could realize the girl actually likes me when the moment arrives, I could capitalize on it. I think its an inner game problem, I dont feel worthy enough to feel like her attraction to me is reality in the moment it actually is reality. Any advice?
Author:  Playboi_ [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 3:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Problem believing I am attractive to girls
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So lately I have been having considerable success with girls, but I seem to keep running into a problem that holds me back: I dont believe girls are into me. Later, while I am going over things, I realize yea this girl or that girl was into me, but at the moment I either didnt recognize it because I felt like I still had to game the girl, or I did recognize it but I just couldnt believe she actually liked me. If I could realize the girl actually likes me when the moment arrives, I could capitalize on it. I think its an inner game problem, I dont feel worthy enough to feel like her attraction to me is reality in the moment it actually is reality. Any advice?
Huge inner game issue. Assume attraction. If you do not believe they do not find you attractive, why the hell would they then? Lack of confidence will outshine your looks all day, everyday. A super non confident 9 will get passed for an uber confident 6 or 7 all day.
Author:  NLP Master [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 3:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Problem believing I am attractive to girls
Quote:
So lately I have been having considerable success with girls, but I seem to keep running into a problem that holds me back: I dont believe girls are into me. Later, while I am going over things, I realize yea this girl or that girl was into me, but at the moment I either didnt recognize it because I felt like I still had to game the girl, or I did recognize it but I just couldnt believe she actually liked me. If I could realize the girl actually likes me when the moment arrives, I could capitalize on it. I think its an inner game problem, I dont feel worthy enough to feel like her attraction to me is reality in the moment it actually is reality. Any advice?
Hey Chappelle,

The problem you are facing is one most people face at some point or another what I can tell you for sure is that the problem isnt how attractive or unattractive you are, the problem is what you believe to be true about yourself.

The biggest secret to becoming attractive to women is becoming attractive to yourself. It is a self-image problem and it needs to be corrected.

I highly recommend you get a copy of the book PsycoCybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. Maltz was a plastic surgeon who during his career noticed that plastic surgery didnt always make people feel more attractive and that alot of attractive people who didnt need surgery felt that they should have it.

This got him interested in the self image and how to change it. It is an amazing book that will help you not only with your woman problems but with everything in life.

You dont feel women are attracted to you because you dont really feel you are worth attracting them and this can easily be changed by imagining yourself the way you want to be with practice you can transform yourself image, gain confidence and passion for life which means you will automatically attract everyone to want to be around you because passion and confidence are magnetic.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 3:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Problem believing I am attractive to girls
Quote:
So lately I have been having considerable success with girls, but I seem to keep running into a problem that holds me back: I dont believe girls are into me. Later, while I am going over things, I realize yea this girl or that girl was into me, but at the moment I either didnt recognize it because I felt like I still had to game the girl, or I did recognize it but I just couldnt believe she actually liked me. If I could realize the girl actually likes me when the moment arrives, I could capitalize on it. I think its an inner game problem, I dont feel worthy enough to feel like her attraction to me is reality in the moment it actually is reality. Any advice?
Well, atleast you've recognized the problem and admitted to it.

So now, what are you going to do about it?

You know that you aren't making a move when you should... so are you going to start making moves or are you going to continue to do the same thing and stand there with your dick in your hand?

You know girls are into you but you don't even believe it... what's it going to take for you to believe it? You have a dick and you turn the girl on. What else do you need to feel "worthy?"

It sounds to me like you've figured out the problem and you've even got the solution figured out. My question for you is what is it going to take for you to start executing?! A firm smack in the head?

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Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 4:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Problem believing I am attractive to girls
"I think therefore I am"

So what'll happen is you'll end up getting what you're projecting, it's how the mind works/makes sense of the world around you and how negativistic thinking perpetuates.
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