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| Author: | invertednz [ Mon Jul 07, 2014 9:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
A girl just got out of a long term relationship 4 years, I want to be more than just the rebound guy for one night. We hooked up recently, no f-close, and I messaged maybe a bit too much compared to what I usually would (nothing crazy and I always got replies, although the last one was sort of a slow down I'm not ready). I wouldn't say I was needy but maybe a bit too persistent. So I'm going to freeze her out for a bit and date other girls. But I was wondering how long would you think is a good length of time to freeze unless she contacts me in a very positive way. Given the length and seriousness of her last relationship I was thinking a couple of months. |
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| Author: | annan [ Mon Jul 07, 2014 5:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
Couple of months is too long. There will be other AMOGs on the hunt. Move in quick, go for a date (pool/ games/ arcade and then drinks), get her buzzed. Feel her up after the date; she'll protest and push you off. Lay off immediately, drop her off to her place respectfully. No calls after that. Wait for her to call - it'll take a couple of days max. That's SOI. Met up and do the works. You got her hooked. Just keep in mind that the games before the drinks/ dinner are important. All the best 
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
There really isn't a set amount of time. It's whenever you have the time to hit her up again. As long as its not coming from a place of neediness, you can call/text as much as you want. Create more options for yourself and you'll naturally get rid of any neediness towards her. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 2:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
Quote: A girl just got out of a long term relationship 4 years, I want to be more than just the rebound guy for one night. We hooked up recently, no f-close, and I messaged maybe a bit too much compared to what I usually would (nothing crazy and I always got replies, although the last one was sort of a slow down I'm not ready). I wouldn't say I was needy but maybe a bit too persistent.
So I'm going to freeze her out for a bit and date other girls. But I was wondering how long would you think is a good length of time to freeze unless she contacts me in a very positive way. Given the length and seriousness of her last relationship I was thinking a couple of months. Let it be natural. Just like Majikal Method said. Also if you're doing a good job at it and she sees you're having fun then most likely she'll contact you. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 2:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
Yeah, natural is the sure way to go. Don't have her on your mind or set a time for when you're going to hit her up again then just randomly drop her a message simply saying "Hey X, how're you getting on?" Take it from there and try not to be needy. |
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| Author: | NaughtyNapoleon [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 5:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How long to freeze a girl out for/how long after a ltr? |
Quote: A girl just got out of a long term relationship 4 years, I want to be more than just the rebound guy for one night. We hooked up recently, no f-close, and I messaged maybe a bit too much compared to what I usually would (nothing crazy and I always got replies, although the last one was sort of a slow down I'm not ready). I wouldn't say I was needy but maybe a bit too persistent.
Do you mean you want to be her bf rather than just hook up with her? So I'm going to freeze her out for a bit and date other girls. But I was wondering how long would you think is a good length of time to freeze unless she contacts me in a very positive way. Given the length and seriousness of her last relationship I was thinking a couple of months. No matter what you want, I do recommend you forget about the freeeeeeze time.. If you want her and now she's single, why the hell you still want to keep yourself from her? That's no logical, right? Plus, a girl just get out of relationship always like to get hook upto gain back her confidence, to assure herself that she's still being desired as an attractive man. What if on the period you freeze her out, she hook up with someone who really good in bed and know how to keep a woman around? You lost your chance with her and probably wait another 4 years! Instead, take this chance when she still desired to hook up and single. Ask her out and bed her fast, give her good night and be warmer to her afterward. Bed her several times and treat her nice & respect her outside of bedroom. She mostly will be yours. This is better than you freeze her out and do nothing. Hope this help, Naughty Napoleon |
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