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Author:  flamingace96 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  Turning the convo sexual

How do you turn a conversation sexual. I have almost everything else down except for this part. I can pass shit tests now, no AA, confidence and body language is good, conversational abilities and teasing is good, all i have trouble with is turning the convo sexual. I have no clue how to do this. I was thinking of learning through trial and error but i dont want to be charged for sexual assault. I have heard of push pull which is used to build attraction but i feel like its not strong enough. How the hell do you even use push pull sexually?

Oh and im also having a bit of a problem with lack of libido/energy. Im 17 and i workout everyday and get a lot of protein in my diet. I also make sure i eat enough fat and i even tried not jacking off for atleast a week now but i feel so dead (if it helps im fasting for this month). I don't even feel sexual attraction most of the time towards a girl in the last few days (im not gay btw). I actually have to force myself to game. HELP

Author:  Playboi_ [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 4:45 am ]
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You are fasting the whole month? Uh.....

Anyway, stop thinking about it so much. Make it sexual from the get go. No so outright as in "I want to be inside of you," but heavy flirting. She will know what is up. And when you can isolate her, you start the heavier touching. Take her hand in yours, slight kisses.

Author:  flamingace96 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:01 am ]
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You are fasting the whole month? Uh.....

Anyway, stop thinking about it so much. Make it sexual from the get go. No so outright as in "I want to be inside of you," but heavy flirting. She will know what is up. And when you can isolate her, you start the heavier touching. Take her hand in yours, slight kisses.
Ramadan (i know that sex is not exactly allowed before marriage in my religion but i decide how i live my life and what rules i want to abide by. I just don't feel like theres anything wrong with this.). How would u flirt then? i need an example of flirting. Is it like "you are wearing that dress like you are doing it a favour" or, i already do stuff like this; "how do you concentrate on what you're saying with me around?" (cocky type stuff).

Author:  Playboi_ [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:18 am ]
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You are fasting the whole month? Uh.....

Anyway, stop thinking about it so much. Make it sexual from the get go. No so outright as in "I want to be inside of you," but heavy flirting. She will know what is up. And when you can isolate her, you start the heavier touching. Take her hand in yours, slight kisses.
Ramadan (i know that sex is not exactly allowed before marriage in my religion but i decide how i live my life and what rules i want to abide by. I just don't feel like theres anything wrong with this.). How would u flirt then? i need an example of flirting. Is it like "you are wearing that dress like you are doing it a favour" or, i already do stuff like this; "how do you concentrate on what you're saying with me around?" (cocky type stuff).
Personally, I make sure that I do NOT verbalize cocky statements TOO much. That can kill the vibe fast and you just look like a d-bag. Say whatever you want bro. I am not one for canned stuff. You like her, go get it. She looks fine as hell one day? Tell her. If you have her #, invite her out but any friendly banter she tries to initiate you have to stay away. Contact her only to see each other. Avoid doing that and you will avoid the friend zone. She will see you as a guy who find her attractive, acts like a boss (if you do), and does not do the bullsh*t back and forth convo over the phone.

Author:  flamingace96 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:28 am ]
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so simply avoid friendly banter and compliment when she has earned it? I look more for personality now so if she has done something that stands out and makes me kind of go quiet for a while to absorb what she just said, then i will usually say something along the lines of how its different and sexy how she does (whatever she does).

And how would you get your libido up; mine is down so any sexual comment doesn't feel genuine anymore. My game is also suffering because of this i mean it's probably why I'm struggling right now.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:49 am ]
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I usually bait her into saying something sexual by intentionally misinterpreting something she'd said as sexual and blaming her for it. You can also easily segway into sexual talk with playful banter where you're giving her a hard time (hopefully she pushes back) thereby building on the sexual tension that's already there.

Author:  Playboi_ [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 2:08 pm ]
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so simply avoid friendly banter and compliment when she has earned it? I look more for personality now so if she has done something that stands out and makes me kind of go quiet for a while to absorb what she just said, then i will usually say something along the lines of how its different and sexy how she does (whatever she does).

And how would you get your libido up; mine is down so any sexual comment doesn't feel genuine anymore. My game is also suffering because of this i mean it's probably why I'm struggling right now.
Genuine compliments Are all you are looking for. They know when it's fake. As for the libido thing bro, I don't know....pop a Viagra.

Author:  neo87 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 3:39 pm ]
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Why do you need to turn the conversation sexual?

Author:  Playboi_ [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 4:03 pm ]
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Why do you need to turn the conversation sexual?
So he can bang?

Author:  skills360 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 4:35 pm ]
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How do you turn a conversation sexual. I have almost everything else down except for this part. I can pass shit tests now, no AA, confidence and body language is good, conversational abilities and teasing is good, all i have trouble with is turning the convo sexual. I have no clue how to do this. I was thinking of learning through trial and error but i dont want to be charged for sexual assault. I have heard of push pull which is used to build attraction but i feel like its not strong enough. How the hell do you even use push pull sexually?

Oh and im also having a bit of a problem with lack of libido/energy. Im 17 and i workout everyday and get a lot of protein in my diet. I also make sure i eat enough fat and i even tried not jacking off for atleast a week now but i feel so dead (if it helps im fasting for this month). I don't even feel sexual attraction most of the time towards a girl in the last few days (im not gay btw). I actually have to force myself to game. HELP

A good way for me is using grandmaster style, here is the explanation and a live lay report, so you can get a sense:

the-grandmaster-style-vt130740.html

Author:  neo87 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:19 pm ]
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Why do you need to turn the conversation sexual?
So he can bang?

Why do you need to mention sex, to have sex? If you're making out with her and feeling her up, is she going to think "well, we haven't talked or joked about sex so this is weird."? She's a woman. You're a man. If she's over 16, and you 2 are on a date, she's probably thinking about having sex. What I'm saying is you don't need to warm a woman up with bs talk to turn her on. Grab her and kiss her suddenly. Pin her up against a wall and kiss her without any warning while walking somewhere. Making a dominant sexual move turns women on more and easier than joking about sex. The need to make a conversation sexual is so overrated. What does it really accomplish?

For eg, I get laid on 1st or at least second date. I don't mention sex or turn conversation's sexual. I just get them comfortable enough to come back to my place and make a move. I prefer NOT to even mention sex on a date, because if I'm inviting her back to my place I don't want her to think, he's trying to sleep with me. Gets women feeling after sex, "wow, it just happened."

Author:  flamingace96 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 7:02 pm ]
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thanks guys, this is really helpful. I will make sure to try this out next time im out with a girl.

Author:  StinkyApple [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 11:46 pm ]
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You need to make it easy(because it is). When you chitchat with her, analyze what she is writing and her mood. When she sends message to you, take something out from the context, insert something funny and sexual(banter with sexual intentions).

If she reponds positivly, you may proceed and you are step closer.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:15 am ]
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I'll use incidental touching and turn it sexual. Look for something say on her hand like a ring, or comment how your hands are totally softer than hers grab her hand fuck it just hold onto it tease her "OMG your palms are all sweaty are you always this way when you're turned on?"

After a bit holding them push her hands off of yours "You little pervo!! I don't get down like that on first meetings I'm notTHAT kinda slut!" but after grab them again and continue.

Author:  flamingace96 [ Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Turning the convo sexual

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I'll use incidental touching and turn it sexual. Look for something say on her hand like a ring, or comment how your hands are totally softer than hers grab her hand fuck it just hold onto it tease her "OMG your palms are all sweaty are you always this way when you're turned on?"

After a bit holding them push her hands off of yours "You little pervo!! I don't get down like that on first meetings I'm notTHAT kinda slut!" but after grab them again and continue.
Ye i use something similar to this right when i shake hands. I would comment on her hands and then hold them for a bit then let go. But the only thing i dont understand is how you get from simple kino to a kiss. Do you just keep kinoing again and again and then suddenly kiss her?

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