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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 2:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | transitioning into a relationship. |
Hey guys here's my question. Over the last while I've worked hard at overcoming my sticking points sarged hard met A LOT of girls I have a lot of options in fact more than I've ever had. However I'm not opposed to the idea od having a gf provided she is the right one for me I won't settle for any girl just for the sake of having a gf. Out of all the girls I have right now 1 is standing apart from the rest as someone I could see myself dating and having a relationship with, but this is the part that I have trouble with sometimes some ppl seem to flow from dating to relationship really easily me not so much. As always any advice is appreciated thanks!! |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 3:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: transitioning into a relationship. |
Hereinlies the problem with pickup, there's no transition point from something ego-based, like PUA into a relationship, which is more equity based. Best way to learn of course is through experience. Let things unfold unto their own, and above all else someone who meshes well with who you really are. Authenticity is a good thing, it's really hard to give any explicit advice as things are so fluid in a relationship. If you screen well and select a girl who bodes well with your values and world view things should be relatively smooth. That said, relationship do take work and adversity in it will bring the two of you even closer together, provided its a good fit. Just enjoy the ride and see where it goes, learn to be as present as you can be through 'losing' yourself in another. |
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| Author: | NaughtyNapoleon [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 3:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: transitioning into a relationship. |
A normal & natural way to get a girl become your gf nowadays is sleep with her multiple times and sure give her good sex. Beside, treat her nice outside the bedroom, have some decent conversation with her. talk about meaningful, personal things with her.. The relationship will gradually transit into relationship if you are doing above two things. Easy as that. Hope this help, Naughty Napoleon |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: transitioning into a relationship. |
If you have decided you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend then that is what will happen. Every time you have sex with a girl for the first time, it is up to you what direction you want to take. You see, the behaviors you emit on the outside will reflect the frame for the type of relationship you are looking for with that girl. If you want just a fuckbuddy, you will treat the girl as a fuckbuddy without even knowing it. If you want a girlfriend, you will naturally do more things that will be more intimate and emotionally bonding. Don't think too much into it, you will fall into place if your mind is already made up that you want a relationship. It's all up to you to dictate where the relationship goes. |
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