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Author:  confusedkid [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Met a girl at a gig. Was she interested?
I went to a concert last night and as I was waiting to meet the act afterwards a girl who had been in my vicinity (back turned) all night came up to me and started talking. She was without a doubt a 10.

We spoke about meeting the musician for a bit, then I negged her about her looking completely perplexed when he came out and she encouraged me to go and meet him. I negged her again by saying "Have you just come here on your own?" To which she replied "No I came with my boyfriend and brother but they've gone into town". She went and talked to her friends for a bit.

She then came up to me later and asked what's going on? I told her the musician had gone back to his van for a bit, and then asked her where she's from. I then accidentally told her I was in college and she was shocked and told me to guess how old she was. I guessed "34" in hope to neg her as she looked no older than 18. She laughed quite a bit at this, and then I said "no 20?" And she said yes. We then talked about our subjects at uni and she said I'd be better off doing economics than maths and I said "Well it's most important you do something you enjoy." Her taxi shortly arrived and as it couldn't park she shortly ran off saying "It was nice to meet you!"

Do you think she was interested? I made her laugh a lot. I wanted to number close and was about to, but didn't get the opportunity. Fuck. I'm definitely making progress, I would have been extremely awkward to talk to a few months ago.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met a girl at a gig. Was she interested?
"Oh that's your cab? Where are you headed?!"

She answers

"Nice! I'm heading over that way too. I'll just ride with you!"

Fuck numbers dude.
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 2:25 pm ]
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a girl who had been in my vicinity (back turned) all night came up to me and started talking.
Duh...

I've only just stopped being quite so retarded as you. Truth is bud, for guys like us, if we notice it then it is super fuck'n obvious.

Maybe someone with more experience will correct me, but from what I gather, most chick's game consists of little more than standing next to you for no reason. If she walked up explicitly to talk to you then she is VERY interested.

Side note: If a girl smiles and waves then she likes you. That one took a while for me to get too ;)
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 6:58 pm ]
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Yes.

But so what? She was just as interested in you as the girl that used to poke you in the first grade. But so what?

The question really is; were you interested in her?

And if the answer is yes the next question is.. Are you a man ?

Because a man goes after the things he wants.
Author:  sugarwallz616 [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 7:36 pm ]
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My take

She is probably interested in you because her boyfriend is a complete douche canoe

I don't know what style of music you are into, but with my experience with gigs and concerts is that if there is a really really attractive girl there? chances are it only because her boyfriend made her go.

If she was that straightforward with you she is probably making a cry for help.

Think about that next time :idea:
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 3:49 am ]
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Hi confusekid,

Do you interested on her? I bet you are since you said she's a 10.

If so, you should definetly set up a date with her at high point of your conversation, like the 'age' part.

Tell her it's fun talking to her and you want to meet her again, set up a date with her and exchange number.

That's simple as that. Nothing complicated here, it's just important that you show a little interest to her and told her why you want to meet her again.

Don't even think about if she's interested, escalate first. If she's interest, she will go along. if she's not, back up a bit and escalate again later. A good rule here is if she denied your advanced for three times than she's really not interest, just move on and find another one who's have a crush on you

Hope this help
Naughty Napoleon
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 12:59 pm ]
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Majik offered the best advanced advice on joining her in the cab. But at your level, Napoleon's suggestion that you set up a date immediately is probably best.

As for the phone number, there is never a wrong time. I've sometimes failed to set up a date and had a girl need to go almost immediately. I just tell her right then that we should exchange numbers before she leaves. Put my number in your phone and text me.
Author:  Animepic [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 1:22 am ]
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She's mad at her bf/ teasing you. Yeah, what they said, it's up to you to spin it. Don't care so much if the girl likes you back, because women generally don't. You have to give it a few dates or whatever.

What's going on: her bf is being gay and ditching her to go drink with her brother. Beyond weird. What's even weirder is that she doesn't have a ride home. So, that's why she approached you. She doesn't think *you're* anything special. A lot of guys think that the female world revolves around them, in the same way that women all think they're hot. Be objective about the situation: what's going on with *this* person?

What you could have done was gotten burgers and malted milk shakes with her or something, complained with her about the men in her life, talk about the types of guys you hate, and given her a ride back. Then dropped her your number, because it was a lot of fun just hanging out with her, and we should do it again sometime! :)

It sounds feminine, but women always fall for this type of guy.
Author:  Animepic [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 1:28 am ]
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Quote:
My take

If she was that straightforward with you she is probably making a cry for help.

Think about that next time :idea:
Yep. You need to be that guy who is in the chick-flicks. Take her to cute carnivals and go on picnics and stuff, with perfect little food and a little bottle of wine. It rides the line between platonic and romantic, and makes you seem like a hero. Oh man, you so would have had her!
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 4:34 am ]
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Quote:
Yes.

But so what? She was just as interested in you as the girl that used to poke you in the first grade. But so what?

The question really is; were you interested in her?

And if the answer is yes the next question is.. Are you a man ?

Because a man goes after the things he wants.
This.
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