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Author:  Pikeman85 [ Tue Jul 01, 2014 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Dating a crazy girl
I posted in lay reports about a girl I picked up and went out with/screwed around this weekend.

She's cute, blonde, giant boobs and 21. Fantastic foreplay - probably the best I've had.

But I'm pretty sure she's crazy. She keeps going on about how she needs control at first, says she was raped by an ex with a piece of glass to her throat, says she has an eating disorder and she's going to be 70 pounds soon.

Now obviously this is not super LTR material, but I feel I'm sufficiently advanced to deal with this level of crazy without it bothering me.

How should I deal with this situation? Should I be roller coastering her or start out more chill?

She seems down for just hooking up at first, which is a plus.
Author:  Mr_International [ Tue Jul 01, 2014 11:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
She's gonna cut your dick off.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue Jul 01, 2014 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
You said you're able to deal with it so why are you even asking?

Just wait till you get pulled in, you'll be in for a bumpy ride.
Author:  alphabro [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 6:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
If you think you can keep having sex with her than do that.

If you could see yourself getting pulled into an unhealthy relationship, bounce.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 12:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
Too much drama.

Too many other girls.

I've hooked up with some crazy girls too and all I can say is it was "interesting."

I'd say its not worth it but do what you want...
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
Holy fuck, she sounds like a piece of work.

Sounds like a terrific FWB candidate to me.

Condoms too... last thing you need is crazy in your life permanently.
Author:  Hejsan [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
Keep her as a FB.

Dont make the mistake to devellop any emotional bonding between you and her. She will do that and she knows how to do it. It will be an emotional rollercoaster for her and it will be fun for her. She will drag you along and once you are off balance she will dump you or play her crazy chaos psycho games with you. Shes an emotional creature and she knows how to deal with it, keep your watch out for it and dont join her rollercoaster ride.

Good luck and have fun, you have been warned!
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
Meh. She's bulimic and experienced a sexual assault. This doesn't meet the crazy mark for me.

Crazy girls are only bad when they're trying to control you. Is she trying to possess you? If not, there's nothing to worry about.

I saw a genuinely crazy girl, complete with macabre poetry, cutting, randomly disappearing several times and who eventually ended up killing herself a year or two after I last saw her. But, all of her issues were internal, and I never had to deal with much of it, aside from being mopey. She was smart, interesting, hot and insanely horny. A good experience overall. It's not that she never attempted to draw me into the crazy. She did. I just didn't join her. Nor did I fight her over it. Crazy is fine. It's control and neediness you want to watch out for. And that goes for sane girls too.
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
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Holy fuck, she sounds like a piece of work.

Sounds like a terrific FWB candidate to me.

Condoms too... last thing you need is crazy in your life permanently.
She's a college student at one of the most elite institutions in the country and wants to go to law school (and has a damn good score too)/grad school combo, so my guess is that she wouldn't TRY to get pregnant, but I agree on the need to be careful here. At this point we haven't had sex sex yet (she, like a lot of girls, has a strict no penetrative sex on the first "hangout" rule).

My guess is that her type is guys who don't get attached to her at all/are mildly abusive. I normally don't start a fight/abuse unless I'm trying to periodically stoke interest with a girl, but I think a bipolar sorta "I love you/you are nothing to me" dynamic would work best here, and would more than likely mirror her behavior.

(not literally tell her I love her - I don't tell girls that)
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
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Meh. She's bulimic and experienced a sexual assault. This doesn't meet the crazy mark for me.

Crazy girls are only bad when they're trying to control you. Is she trying to possess you? If not, there's nothing to worry about.

I saw a genuinely crazy girl, complete with macabre poetry, cutting, randomly disappearing several times and who eventually ended up killing herself a year or two after I last saw her. But, all of her issues were internal, and I never had to deal with much of it, aside from being mopey. She was smart, interesting, hot and insanely horny. A good experience overall. It's not that she never attempted to draw me into the crazy. She did. I just didn't join her. Nor did I fight her over it. Crazy is fine. It's control and neediness you want to watch out for. And that goes for sane girls too.
She kept saying, "I am in control", "I am in control"

During the whole encounter. And even after over texts. At first it seemed playful, but part of it seems like reassurance too. Part of me thought she was trying to goad me to push her further, but some of it seems genuine.

She doesn't seem to actually care about controlling me though - but who knows if that changes when she gets emotionally attached, which my guess is that she will.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 3:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
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Meh. She's bulimic and experienced a sexual assault. This doesn't meet the crazy mark for me.

Crazy girls are only bad when they're trying to control you. Is she trying to possess you? If not, there's nothing to worry about.

I saw a genuinely crazy girl, complete with macabre poetry, cutting, randomly disappearing several times and who eventually ended up killing herself a year or two after I last saw her. But, all of her issues were internal, and I never had to deal with much of it, aside from being mopey. She was smart, interesting, hot and insanely horny. A good experience overall. It's not that she never attempted to draw me into the crazy. She did. I just didn't join her. Nor did I fight her over it. Crazy is fine. It's control and neediness you want to watch out for. And that goes for sane girls too.
She kept saying, "I am in control", "I am in control"

During the whole encounter. And even after over texts. At first it seemed playful, but part of it seems like reassurance too. Part of me thought she was trying to goad me to push her further, but some of it seems genuine.

She doesn't seem to actually care about controlling me though - but who knows if that changes when she gets emotionally attached, which my guess is that she will.
Was one of her eyes twitching uncontrollably as she said this?

Joking aside I focus more on the behavior, less so what a person is saying.
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 3:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
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Meh. She's bulimic and experienced a sexual assault. This doesn't meet the crazy mark for me.

Crazy girls are only bad when they're trying to control you. Is she trying to possess you? If not, there's nothing to worry about.

I saw a genuinely crazy girl, complete with macabre poetry, cutting, randomly disappearing several times and who eventually ended up killing herself a year or two after I last saw her. But, all of her issues were internal, and I never had to deal with much of it, aside from being mopey. She was smart, interesting, hot and insanely horny. A good experience overall. It's not that she never attempted to draw me into the crazy. She did. I just didn't join her. Nor did I fight her over it. Crazy is fine. It's control and neediness you want to watch out for. And that goes for sane girls too.
She kept saying, "I am in control", "I am in control"

During the whole encounter. And even after over texts. At first it seemed playful, but part of it seems like reassurance too. Part of me thought she was trying to goad me to push her further, but some of it seems genuine.

She doesn't seem to actually care about controlling me though - but who knows if that changes when she gets emotionally attached, which my guess is that she will.
Was one of her eyes twitching uncontrollably as she said this?

Joking aside I focus more on the behavior, less so what a person is saying.

Yeah, doubly true with a girl like this.

Her game seemed to be exciting me as much as possible while denying me sex (though she did eventually blow me). She's trying to get emotional attachment/guys falling for her. My guess is that the ones who do, she drops quickly. I can certainly understand how she'd get that - even I, the day after, had my mind a little blown. She's damn good and she knows it.

At this point it's all about the right balance of lover and jerk.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
Fucking a crazy huh? (well soon to be) GOOD TIMES.

But keep it at that level, she's not for dating. She's not equipped, she lacks a filter before saying something or doing something before she makes a decision.

Don’t date girls With Borderline Personality Disorder.

Your risking huge and unpredictable mood swings. From lovey-dovey to scary as fuck in two seconds flat.

The good news....

Her vagina lacks the same filter as her mouth...

Even a child like fascination with sex and sexual experimentation, often seeking sensory overload like hardcore porn and rape fantasies (as you mentioned).

I obsessed over one, it did not stop me from any other women, UNLESS SHE MAKE CONTACT, and was DTF.

I would stop whatever I was doing......

It caused much constant turmoil. Ruined many public outings, functions, and gatherings.

-I.E.- Try explaining to the screaming hysterical bride at her wedding, why your date is fully naked in the men's room getting ass railed by a willing groomsmen.

But she was a true Medusa, she would turn my dick to stone with a glance! (Brain as well.)

It was the worst love/hate/emotional bullshit I'd ever faced.

-I even drove 3 hours to pick her up from a FUCKING INSTITUTION, after a melt down, took her home, had the wildest sex imaginable. Only to find out the next day she barricaded herself in her apartment and broke every light-bulb and mirror in the place.

Be warned, your playing with a cocked I.E.D.

Pleasure yourself at your own risk.
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
By controlling, I meant controlling you. Being in control of sexual situations is something rape victims are taught in therapy. That's a whole other thing. It's supposed to prevent triggers, and allow her to relax, without touching former emotions she experienced during (or more likely) after the rape.

This girl sounds even less crazy to me than before. It sounds more like she unfortunately decided to go to some sort of psychiatrist or even a specialized rape counselor. Pretty much the entire body of their literature is a little road map for fucking women up emotionally, far worse than her rapist ever did. They mostly do it by stoking up fear of all men, and then toss in plenty of tying her sexual essence to the assault. Their goal is to make her progressively more emotionally unstable, so she never "gets better" and they can keep her in therapy indefinitely.

If she's still seeing these people, I would actually change my advice and suggest you not see her again. More often than not, they try to convince her she's been raped many, many times, by multiple people. They actually usually don't thumb the current guy as a rapist while she's seeing him. They wait until you two stop seeing each other. But I would personally prefer to avoid that situation.
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a crazy girl
I don't think she's seeing a therapist right now, though that DOES sound like another girl that I saw briefly (but decided she was too crazy and dropped her - girl actually wrote "RAPE" on her arm - sadly she was both hot and rich).

I'll keep my eye out for any behavior like that and try to quell it. If she is, in fact, too crazy/seeing someone who'll tell her she was raped by me, I may have to drop her, which would be a tragedy.

And Heywood - I knew she was liked fucking/wanted to be fuck the moment I saw her. Girls don't wear the clothes she was wearing unless they're trying to advertise, "I AM FUCKABLE, PLEASE FUCK ME", generally. Especially not at a bake sale. I'll probably try to hook up hook up with her this weekend.

I don't even think emotional games could really phase me at this point with just about any girl. My frame is (usually) pretty strong, and I always have a line-up of backups for at least fucking. They're not as hot as her, but so? A warm vagina feels the same, and you can still get plenty cute without having to hit tiny blonde girl with giant boobs cute.
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