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Author:  confusedkid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 7:57 pm ]
Post subject:  How to recover from flake?

Arranged with a girl to go out for a drink tonight, she tried to phone me then said "Answer your phone man, I can't come tonight x"

I phoned her back, and she said her friend had came back from ***** and that her boyfriend had broken up with her, and she was more important than me obviously (jokingly). I said "you've got that wrong, but I'll probably see you at the festival on Thursday" then we talked about that and I said "Shit I've still got to get a tent" and she said

"Well you can't sleep in mine"

So I said; "I'm not sleeping within 10m of you, I know what you're like"

And she said "You're the one who's being keen recently, you went to London with me"

I said "I know, you were surprisingly fun..."

She said "I'm always fun"

I said "Pfft more like once a month"

And she said "You haven't even know me a month"

We ended by saying I'll see you at the festival. Now that's not an ideal place for me to see her as another girl I'm seeing is going there, and I do want to see her before. I don't know what to do. This all happened today so I'm guessing I shouldn't message her for at least a few days.

Feeling fucking awful as I was quite looking forward to tonight. Also, as she said I was being keen do I need to lay off a bit? Or should I just say, yeah fuck it I do what I want, or something equally vulgarly alpha?

Shall I text her tomorrow evening something like,

"Shame about last night, I was hoping to catch the fun you while it lasted... ;)"

Any advice is appreciated as always guys. I plan to go out tomorrow night and hopefully meet some more girls.

Author:  schoolofromance [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to recover from flake?

So you went London with her and I am assuming you didn't bang her?

Anyway, she is flirting with you by the way she texts. Just be nonchalant, you are a high value guy and you have a lot of things going on in your life that you cannot be that bothered with such things.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to recover from flake?

She sounds into you to me... Keep going. Escalate.

Have you fucked her yet? Shame if you went to London with her and didn't... just a shame.

Her flake sounds reasonably legit... though annoying. You acted fine.

Reschedule something.

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