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Author:  confusedkid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  How to regain interest of HB9?

I've been flirting with a hb9 whom I was told fancied me by one of her friends. I messaged her recently saying "lets get a drink this week, when you free?" and she replied "I'm not really free in the evenings this week, but I'll be in town most days. Are you going out in ***** tomorrow night?" To which I said possibly not. Maybe do something next Monday. She has apparently not opened this message on facebook.

This was last week. I snapchatted her last night saying; " I need your help next week..." As we are both going to a festival and I was going to jokingly say I need to use her fierceness to guard my tent when I'm away for a night. She didn't, however, open the snapchat until today ( one day later) and hasn't replied.

I know she was interested a few weeks ago as my friend offered for her to borrow his phone to text me when hers broke and she said "no that'll look too keen". Also last week, she said to my friends (girls), "I don't know what to do about ****, I don't know if he's hot." To which my friends replied, "He is hot! Go for it." So there was definite initial interest. We nearly kissed once having lunch together in a park but I bottled it as she reminded me of another girl was seeing.

Also I've started seeing on of our friends, so this may complicate matters. Although I'm pretty sure they don't talk, and the one I've just started seeing isn't looking for exclusivity.

How should I proceed?

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

Ask her out. Nuff said.

Author:  confusedkid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

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Ask her out. Nuff said.

I did mate. She said she didn't know when she was free. I only have her on facebook so I can't call her as I'd like to.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

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Ask her out. Nuff said.

I did mate. She said she didn't know when she was free. I only have her on facebook so I can't call her as I'd like to.
She's not interested, for whatever reason. Don't personalize it either, it's likely you werent a sexual threat, or maybe her mood whatever.

Find other girls. There are a shit-tonne that'd be responsive to you.

Author:  confusedkid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 8:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

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Ask her out. Nuff said.

I did mate. She said she didn't know when she was free. I only have her on facebook so I can't call her as I'd like to.
She's not interested, for whatever reason. Don't personalize it either, it's likely you werent a sexual threat, or maybe her mood whatever.

Find other girls. There are a shit-tonne that'd be responsive to you.
I know she was quite heavily. I'm sure I can somehow turn this around...

I'm talking to another girl too so it's not oneitis.

Author:  Bender1234 [ Mon Jun 30, 2014 3:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

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Ask her out. Nuff said.
Did you even read this?

EDIT: OP please just ignore this tool. Take some real advice:

You went wrong asking 'when she's free'. It has a degree of neediness. Reminds me of a friend I have, when he asks this every single weekend I find it annoying. Say "Let's hangout tonight" or "Tomorrow night, we're totally seeing that new XMen movie!"

This is my conclusion, if she really is interested, than you may have just simply scared her off. Remember the rule though: Never send 3 texts in a row, if that happens do a freeze out for 3 days up to a week

Author:  Havran228 [ Sun Jul 06, 2014 4:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

your first problem is that you asked her where is she free so you put her higher value.. you have to say: I have free time on monday at 8 for example.. her HB number is absolutely irrelevant.. she have to deserve your time, not you her´s.. show some balls.. you know what Imean.. you are a PUA, you choose girls, girls don´t choose you.. don´t jump as they wistle because you will soon be AFC again..

Author:  Playboi_ [ Sun Jul 06, 2014 6:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain interest of HB9?

Seems like she was digging you when you were not putting intentional thought into attracting her. You were being a boss ass dude and she dug it. She was probably trying so hard to get your attention and now you are hooked. Show some interest by asking her out to a specific place, specific time then leave it at that.

If she is slow to bite on that you just go about your day. She will more likely than not retaliate with a different time and place to meet up and you are in.

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