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Author:  N91 [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 9:24 am ]
Post subject:  Having a girl leave you alone

Anybody ever had the displeasure of literally having to tell a girl to leave you alone on a night out?

It was a girl that I had pulled a few weeks ago, she's one of those that just keeps coming over all night. I was just hanging out with my friends trying to scout out the potential in the club and she just kept coming over to chat (I had no intention or desire to pull her for a second time). I was thinking in the back of my mind if another girl sees this, I am screwed, as she was being very touchy feely.

I moved clubs a little later. I was on the dancefloor with my friend and she came over and literally started to dance right infront of me, grinding her ass on me and I was just like no, this isn't happening.

I told her to follow and just said something along the lines of 'Look, something happened last week and not to be a dick about it but that's all it will be as I don't want a gf or anything like that. I just want to be single and free to do what I want without having her come up to me every 10 minutes and basically making it look like we're an item' - To this she agreed saying she wanted to be single too as she had just come out of a realtionship, so I said cool lets leave it at that.

She looked pissed off as hell, but I got off anyway, I explained my point but it was just on my mind all night and it annoyed the shit out of me that I had to go to that length to get a girl to leave me alone. Anyone else had to suffer similar? or feel like a situation like that has fucked up a night of potential game?

Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 11:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having a girl leave you alone

I had been in this situation many times.

I didn't tell the girl to leave me alone; instead I use my action to ask her to leave me.

Just go approach a girl & have fun with that girl. And that girl that keep coming to you, if she's socially calibrated, she will leave you alone.

If she's not, just use her as an excuse, and ask that girl you are talking with to kiss you. Mostly if that girl you are talking with attracted with you, she will love to do so.

Try it out, it's actually quite fun if you look at the bright side of this thing.


Hope this help,
NAughty Napoleon

Author:  Versalis [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 11:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having a girl leave you alone

Excuse me, Miss. I know I thought you were hot enough to fuck once, and rather than lock you up as a casual fuck buddy, which you clearly stated you were interested in, I think I'll pass, as I have a surplus of both kleenex and hand lotion and must rid myself of each.

Now if you'll excuse me, I would like to go home alone tonight, rather than text you at 3am and have you come suck me off.

I'm super alpha right now 8)

Author:  N91 [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 12:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Having a girl leave you alone

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Excuse me, Miss. I know I thought you were hot enough to fuck once, and rather than lock you up as a casual fuck buddy, which you clearly stated you were interested in, I think I'll pass, as I have a surplus of both kleenex and hand lotion and must rid myself of each.

Now if you'll excuse me, I would like to go home alone tonight, rather than text you at 3am and have you come suck me off.

I'm super alpha right now 8)
Yeah about that......kinda why I didn't want to go back there, like I said, she seems bat shit crazy and was giving me grief like 'oh lets stand here and look for girls for you together' In a sarcastic manner, that kinda shit. I don't need that when I am single, so forget trying to turn it into a fuck buddy, she would probably try to murder me if she saw me with someone else.

I was trying to get into other people as well and she was making it really hard work. I would rather attempt and get a new lay and get knocked back than go back to and old one anyways unless she was really good. I'm not gonna go home and cry if I don't get laid lol

Author:  Versalis [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Having a girl leave you alone

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I was trying to get into other people as well and she was making it really hard work.
Yes, and? So tell her you need to get to your friend's party across town, and bounce, just like you did. Yet, tell her you'll hit her up some time.
Then you could have later that night after trying and failing to get anyone else.
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I would rather attempt and get a new lay and get knocked back than go back to and old one anyways unless she was really good. I'm not gonna go home and cry if I don't get laid lol
You're creating a false dichotomy. It's not either or.

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