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| Author: | bartm [ Sat Jun 28, 2014 9:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
I have been to 2 places in the past couple of weeks where food was being served. Both times, I was picking up pastry from the table and a girl asks me "is it good?" The first time the girl was a blonde, not very attractive probably a 5. The second time it was a brunette, probably a 7. I am just wondering, is this common? is it an IOI or it doesn't mean anything? What is a good response to "is it good?" I said "yes" like some kind of an idiot and the conversation died right there. I have prepared these, are these good or can you come up with something better? her: "is it good?" me: "well...it depends. do you like things that are sweet?" or "why are you asking ME? is it because you have a secret crush on me?" or when I hear the question I could simply extend my hand and introduce myself without answering the actual question? What do you think, guys? is it an IOI, or some kind of a test? or am I reading too much into this and it doesnt mean anything? how should I respond? |
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| Author: | Mastermind9000 [ Sat Jun 28, 2014 9:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
She used a situational opener. It's an excuse. I like the idea to skip the question and going right to the introduction like you know it's an excuse. Smooth. |
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| Author: | Animepic [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 12:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Quote: She used a situational opener. It's an excuse. I like the idea to skip the question and going right to the introduction like you know it's an excuse. Smooth.
^What he said. I would do this to let a guy know that I thought he was cute.
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Whether it is an IOI or not is largely immaterial. If YOU believe it is, that is mostly that matters. Why? ALWAYS assume attraction. By doing so you're far more likely to exhibit confidence (not creepiness) and escalate without getting in your head. So, again, what was your question? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 1:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Her: "Is it good?" You: "That depends, who wants to know?" (inferring you want to know her name and have a 'formal intro) |
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| Author: | NorthBoy [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 2:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Quote: Whether it is an IOI or not is largely immaterial.
This guy is right. Assume attraction
If YOU believe it is, that is mostly that matters. Why? ALWAYS assume attraction. By doing so you're far more likely to exhibit confidence (not creepiness) and escalate without getting in your head. So, again, what was your question? |
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| Author: | NaughtyNapoleon [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
For me, I will definetly assume it's an IOI and start a conversation right there. Beside, stop putting a scale on girls you meet, like 5,6,7,8..9s 10s kind of stuffs. It will distract you when you actually meet a very beautiful women with cool personality and you thought she's a 10s ... what happen? You will mostly act nervous around her as you scare losing her. Try stop putting scale on girls for a year and look back at the girls you had sleep with the past year. You will found that you had sleep with more beautiful women than the time you put a scale on girls. I had tried this and had many readers tried this on my blog. It work wonder for us. Try it out. Signing out, Naughty Napoloen |
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| Author: | schoolofromance [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 12:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
I will always end up asking if I am somehow at the pantry. Waiting for a girl to open is simply letting situations out of your control. You are an alpha male and you should always lead in every interaction. When I do get girls to open me up randomly, I will definitely stack and make sure I move the conversation forward. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 12:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Sure. She was interested in you. But you didn't do anything about it.... So it doesn't matter. |
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| Author: | Animepic [ Thu Jul 03, 2014 4:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this an IOI? how to respond? |
Don't say the second thing with the secret crush. Say the first one where she likes things sweet. The second one sounds like you're jumping to conclusions, because she can go, " No, I just asked." If you "accidentally" graze her hand or something like after you say the "sweet comment", oh man. |
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