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Author:  flamingace96 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Fighting
I have almost gotten into fights three times and all through daygame and im just a newbie. I dont hit on girls who are with their bfs but once this girl was sitting alone and i went to go talk to her. She didn't say she had a bf or anything but she had a bitch shield. I persisted a bit but it didn't break so i left and the moment i left, the bf came around; i saw him looking around for me. Another instance is when i was talking to 2 girls and both of them were extremely receptive. Then we were about to go for a smoke and she's like she forgot her lighter in the car so she told me to wait around for a while (obviously i didnt) and she came back with her 6 4 bf (im 5 4). Luckily i was gone at the time so i didn't die that day. Today an angry bf called my phone through his gf's phone (i got her number and we were texting back and forth) and he was pretty pissed. I just hung up because i wasn't even registering what he was saying (i had just woke up).

So now my question is how the hell am i supposed to fight these guys. Im fucking 5 4 and even though i can bench press most of them, height usually wins in a fight. On top of all that, im subconsciously scared of fighting, because i grew up in a bad neighborhood. I have gotten into fights and i have won some but whenever i win the guy gets seriously injured; i hate that. How many fights have you guys been in?
Author:  AFCEastChampion [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 4:36 pm ]
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Where are you running game? Certain areas are just shitholes where you can expect most of the male population to be itching for a fight. And what do these girls look like? Not asking for a number rating, but there's a certain hard to describe look that should be able to tell you whether or not she's one of those chicks who enjoys getting guys into physical combat.
Author:  flamingace96 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
the girls who got me into these situations 2/3 looked like the type i would only bang and not even think about spending more time with. 1 of them looked decent like she could be someone normal. And i usually game at a mall (its a decent mall) or around my streets (i dont live in a hood or something and its a newer area). I guess where i live most people are really into the whole rap scene and usually near the recreation centers you can see some thugs smoking weed. There are a few trailer park type of white boys but it looks like they don't fit here. Its a clean and nice area with a police station like 3 minutes away from where i live. I have no clue why this is even happening ... these girls don't mention bfs or even hesitate before giving me their numbers. This took a hit on my confidence and now im actually scared. I had motivation to get better at game just for the sake of getting better, but since that was barely motivation, the last thing on my mind is girls right now. :shock:
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
Quote:

So now my question is how the hell am i supposed to fight these guys.
You aren't. Staying cool when some weak minded, threatened chode loses his head is always the right move.

One of my best "yoda moments" was when a douche rolled up on me cross-eyed and going to punch me out because I hit on his GF the week before. He said I offended her... which from the giant bambie eyes she gave me at the time was simply not the case. She clearly told him I said something I didn't to make him feel better. He was stewing and orbiting me all night. When he came I asked if I owed her an apology, he thought about it, said "yes" and then led me back to her so I could hit on her again! lol. Yoda? I'm like fuck'n darth vader some times.
Author:  flamingace96 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
i guess i could look at like that. I'm usually pretty chill and I dont get pissed off unless im lifting but thats more like rage at the weights. But lets say he tries to hit me from the back or sucker punches me and then jumps me with his boys?

I have actually had this happen where i was walking with a guy who i thought was cool (didnt really know him that well) and i jokingly pushed him lightly and i was laughing and he knocked me in the face and my nose was all bloody. I also got jumped once when some ghetto thugs came from behind and all jumped me(i was walking home at night from the gym) ... couldn't that happen if i talked to a guys gf?

How would i defend myself in these situations?
Author:  Skylar B [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
basically most of the guys said it

>stay cool

>keep your voice at the same vocal (he will think you feel unthreatened)

>stare him in the eye

>dont fidget or wimper when talking.

if he does hit you or shove past you,make a big deal about it
like say in a loud voice "I didnt feel you hit me,hit harder next time" or "hey hit me again,i wanna feel it this time"

also i would recommend looking at this video and many others on self defence because getting mugged at night isnt right, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNNCKEK6PdM
Author:  flamingace96 [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
good video but it was like 4-5 guys at the same time; i couldn't do much other than run. I couldn't really outrun them either because they had bikes. Well nothing was really taken from me other than a shitty phone (old ass black berry that would barely go for 50$). Sadly they broke my glasses but now I look back on it i should have smashed the guy's face in (their punches were light as shit i basically let myself go down because there were too many). Luckily they didn't hit me hard that i got any sort of bruises and i looked fine the next day except my glasses were broken; thats the only part that i got pissed about (they were nice glasses).
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
Hey dude I just got in a fight about an hour ago. I went to pick a buddy up at the bar and there were some dirtbags using foul language and directing it at a group of ladies 1 of the rules of being a player is if you see something wrong you don't just keep quiet. So I stepped in between them and polietly yet firmly told him not to use language like that. He got aggressive I defended myself.

That's just 1 of a few stories I could tell you!
Author:  CESARE [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 7:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
Dude, the thing is easy. Do you want to fight?
If yes, then I'd consider taking judo/karate/kung fu lessons (i do judo and i can assure you that smaller guys usully win here...) and maybe go out with a friend who is stronger than you or that at least can help you out.

If not (good choice) just stay positive when the bf comes and if you don't wanna steal his gf just say something like "wow, you are a lucky man dude. Congrats". I usually say this and it always worked. Some of these guys even became my friends.

P.S.: What kind of girls do you approach??? It's not normal that they call their bf to break your bones... Try with someone else
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fighting
LFMAO oh god
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