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| Author: | hashtag04 [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 2:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to properly convey interest (confess attraction)? |
My interactions fall into three categories. (A) I probably could have gotten away with conveying interest but was too afraid of rejection. (B) I decided to go ahead and convey interest... and made the girl uncomfortable. (C) I tried to build attraction by going out of my way to convey disinterest. EX. One time, the conversation/kino was going great. So I decided to build attraction by saying "great talking to you" and leaving. When I came back 5 min. later, she was talking to other people, and the whole situation had changed enough that it was hard to move forward. EX 2. Another thing I sometimes do to convey disinterest is look at other people. Not sure if this is a good idea, as it involves breaking eye contact. So my question is what is the proper way to convey attraction? Thanks so much to anyone who read all that and has any tips. |
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| Author: | LIFE PUA [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 3:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to properly convey interest (confess attraction)? |
By qualifying and making her earn your attraction. |
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| Author: | Le Chiffre [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 4:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to properly convey interest (confess attraction)? |
This is tuff. You have to calibrate yourself to every situation. From the first moment you talk to her and open her up you are showing interest, teasing her, complementing her, telling stories to show value, whatever your game might be. There are a few different levels you can take the situation, each one building off of the other. Thats where calibration comes in. If you walk up to a single girl at a bar and open her up, she will already know you are interested. Therefore assuming your game is alright, you could start to build physical attraction by saying "your hair smells nice" and go to sniff her hair or say "your skin looks so soft" and proceed to slowly move your hand down her arm. if she doesn't push you away and actually gives you the "ioi's" than continue to take it as far as she lets you. take subtle interest and build the seduction. If she is in a group pay attention to everyone except her. make her win your attention, and do as i said previously. if she doesn't respond to your physical advancements then just calibrate your self (take it down a notch), continue you to game her and try again. if all fails move on to the next one. they won't all be looking for what you are looking for. To clarify all this, what your are really asking is how to game. because if you are gaming her properly, you will be conveying the right amount of attraction. take risks, be bold, and most importantly just do it and don't apologize for it! |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to properly convey interest (confess attraction)? |
D) Its easy. You approach women and talk to them as if you expect them to respond. If you're thinking too long you're not going to be successful. You have to walk up to women with a smile as if women always talk to you.If you expect to be rejected, get to anxious, nervous etc. they will feel your nerves and it will make them nervous. They will feel your anxiety and it will make them anxious. They will feel like you think you're going to get rejected an so they will give you just that. Women are looking to follow our leads.. Treat them like you would treat them if a angel came out of the sky an told you " No woman will ever reject your approach ever again" - You would have fun with it, you'd approach confidently because you knew that there was no way to fail. Approach like rejection doesn't exist, and the girl is yours. |
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| Author: | hashtag04 [ Sat Jun 28, 2014 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to properly convey interest (confess attraction)? |
I'm reading and re-reading all these responses. Many thanks! |
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