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| Author: | ptiger91 [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 6:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Breaking Tinder Awkwardness |
Well, here goes. A woman whom I've known to have been interested in me for awhile jumped on Tinder after she had a break up. Admittedly, there was mutual interest before, but too much baggage at the time. I started my account again last week out of boredom, but sure enough, we both swiped right, hit the green button or what have you. She emailed me first and pointed out that "We both swiped right!" I was a little freaked, but I decided to try and roll with it and made a light joke of it. 1. We've been out once, not much happened and I don't know if it was just me feeling awkward or the whole Tinder awkwardness in general between the both of us, but it was there. 2. She mentioned that she knew me before as friend, when we get together it doesn't feel like a date, etc. I laughed a little and gently reminded her that she made choice on Tinder as well. 3. She mentioned that I'm older...I'm not 10 years older and I've dated women 10 years younger even though I'm in my early 30s, so I have no issue with that. But it would be good to know how to get past that kind of wall that a woman might put up. I'd like to get opinions on 1-3. It's a little weird and while I like sarging about town, the whole Tinder thing fascinates me too. Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Clocks [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 10:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Breaking Tinder Awkwardness |
I don't really understand but it sounds like you can improve on your date skills. If it seems like you're a friend you haven't made it a date, you haven't made your time together sexual. You have to flirt |
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| Author: | ptiger91 [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 11:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Breaking Tinder Awkwardness |
Quote: I don't really understand but it sounds like you can improve on your date skills. If it seems like you're a friend you haven't made it a date, you haven't made your time together sexual. You have to flirt
And maybe that's just the kick in the ass that I needed with this...pretty much why I'm here in the first place...I've always been a terrible flirt on top of some other areas that I could improve on the dating end. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 11:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Breaking Tinder Awkwardness |
Tinder out of borden or tinder because you wanted to get laid? lol I messed around with online dating a couple times because my clients ask me about it, but what I do know is the key to awkward situations lies in the hands of the one leading the interaction. If you're leading her (which you should be) you are the only one that can make a situation awkward. You have all ability to diffuse the situation. Make light of it.. As far as age.. Its similar to the question above; women make comments about things to see how we feel about them. How we feel about them, lets them know how they should feel. If a girl said " Don't you think you're a little old for me" - She's checking to see if she should feel that way; and she needs you to be the leader and tell her how she should feel. If you get all defensive like " noooo I've dated young girls before" she'll take that as a sign that she should be worried since your showing insecurity. |
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| Author: | ptiger91 [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 10:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Breaking Tinder Awkwardness |
^^^^^ Hey man, thanks for the feedback |
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