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Author:  The Asian Don [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  First date - how to greet & say goodbye
So I have a date with this girl I met online. This will be the first time I meet her. I'm gonna be picking her up from her work then we're gonna walk to the river and get a drink.

Just need some advice on how should I greet her when we first meet. Hug? A simple 'hey' and touch on the arm? Fake kiss to cheek?

I'm based in London, England btw so the culture is a bit different to America.

Need some advice please. Thanks.

Also some general first date advice would be great! Or links to videos/posts on the topic. Cheers.
Author:  detox75 [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 11:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
look her in the eye until she looks away, give her a coy smile, make some non-supplicating situational comment, then direct her to where she should sit. If you do that your way ahead of 95% of first time online daters.

I find it safer for newbies to avoid any initial handshaking or hugging
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
You could ask her if she's got any grapes.
Author:  CESARE [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
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I find it safer for newbies to avoid any initial handshaking or hugging
Why? I think it's a great excuse to break the touch barrier, especially for newbies!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 4:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Hey man,

The more you can get done on initial contact the more that will be done during the date.

When meeting a girl is your job to set the pace.. Is this going to be some distant, reserved, lets take our time date - or a full on open, fun, exciting time.

Greet her with a warm hug and a kiss on the cheek.. This gets the ball rolling in the direction you would like the date to be in.

Use the intro as a metaphor for what the future will be.

You want distance - greet with distance

You want closeness - greet with closeness
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 4:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Hug and lots of eye contact.
Author:  Clocks [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Hug and kiss on the cheek

Kiss soon after
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Quote:
You could ask her if she's got any grapes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIr2l9gtE-0

"DID YOU EAT ONE OF MY GRAPES???? IS THAT WHY YOU"RE CRYING??" LMFAO!!!
Author:  Versalis [ Thu Jun 19, 2014 1:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Quote:
Quote:
You could ask her if she's got any grapes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIr2l9gtE-0

"DID YOU EAT ONE OF MY GRAPES???? IS THAT WHY YOU"RE CRYING??" LMFAO!!!
LOL
I was thinking of the Duck Song, but that works too :D

Btw, I agree with post #2 that when you first start, less early touching is better. Though touching isn't complicated, if it feels forced at all, it creeps the girl out. And if you creep her out within the first minute, you're in for an awkward early date that's difficult to turn around. Save the touching for once you've got her actively engaged in talking and enjoying your company.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jun 19, 2014 9:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
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Why? I think it's a great excuse to break the touch barrier, especially for newbies!
Because new guys with weak inner game tend to make physical contact needy, supplicating, and/or creepy. my goal when I first meet a girl is not to comfort her or try to push physical contact before qualification. Kino is a double edged sword and must be handled well.

I realize this view is antithetic to the majority of the PUA community, but this has been my experience over a long time.
Author:  CESARE [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First date - how to greet & say goodbye
Quote:
Quote:
Why? I think it's a great excuse to break the touch barrier, especially for newbies!
Because new guys with weak inner game tend to make physical contact needy, supplicating, and/or creepy. my goal when I first meet a girl is not to comfort her or try to push physical contact before qualification. Kino is a double edged sword and must be handled well.

I realize this view is antithetic to the majority of the PUA community, but this has been my experience over a long time.

I agree with you, but if newbies understand and get a good inner game, I think they should go and break the touch barrier.
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