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Author:  dorkley [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 2:12 am ]
Post subject:  How do I handle these lines from my girl?

1.my girl complains sometimes that we always "do what I want to do" (i don't often consult her, she'll say where are we going and ill say its a surprise or you'll see, or il tell her ect which is probably wrong, but i do make sure we do what i wanna do or let her choose from my options)

2. she keeps going back to the subject or bringing up a friend (female) of mine from work sarcastically because she says she "hates that girl" kiddingly because she gets to see me more than she does. "who are you going with? mary?" oh you must be taking "mary to the movies!" I told her to stop she is like a broken record I get it that she is jealous lol

3. I told her how my buddy has pics of him and his girlfriend on twitter. She says "I bet people on there don't know that I am your girlfriend" or "there are no pics of me and you on there, but danny has HIS girl on there" "we have talked about this before" I simply laughed and ignored or made the joke "I gave you the chance to take a pic with me before, ya made your bed now sleep!" she got all quiet but I kept my frame

4. Finally, she will say something like "you always ignore what I say" or "you never take what I say seriously, I take everything that you say seriously"

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 3:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I handle these lines from my girl?

If she loves you man then keep being who you are being.

A lot of times women think they are going to change the man into someone who is "better" for them by complaining. Now if the guy changes too much into what they pushed him into they will lose attraction for him, because he is no longer the guy they fell in love with. He has become this new guy that is what she thought she wanted a guy to be.

To me it sounds like the girl loves you a lot; show her love, hug her, kiss her... Just don't let this shit bother you. And when you do decide to answer her demands. Do so a week or so later; make it a surprise.. She'll love you that much more for it.

But all in all, you're doing completely fine.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 6:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I handle these lines from my girl?

This is girlspeak for "hey dummy, you haven't shown me any love or told me how much you love me lately".


It is completely normal, the girl digs you. You just haven't been charming and showing her how much she means to you lately. If the girl didn't like you, she would not be with you plain and simple. Just shower a little more affection here and there.

~Assertive

Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 7:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I handle these lines from my girl?

She doesn't feel important to you for whatever reason. Ask her how to meet this need, see what she says.

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