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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Mon Jun 09, 2014 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My last oneitis is unfaithful and desperate - what to do? |
I dated a girl last year. We had amazing chemistry - sex was great, we seemed to enjoy each other's company a lot, etc. Fell for her, but she was straight up like, "I want to settle down ASAP". I wasn't ready at that point to settle down, or so I thought. I let her go and told her to date someone else, but at one point she made an argument to settle down that stuck with me (as I think she was intending to). Rather than going back to her confidently, I came back as a pussy, and so despite her argument working, she rejected me for another guy. I was pretty broken up about it, especially as she and I had dated for months, and she and the guy had dated for like 3 or 4 weeks at that point. He dropped her after a few months, hard. She came back at me, but then took my kindness as weakness (which happens, and I'm fine with it, but I don't tolerate disrespect), and blew me off again, for that, I cut her out for 9 months, which she definitely noticed (posting, "I miss you" on my facebook wall like 4 or 5 months after the last time I had seen her, making flirty comments, etc). Anyway, just as I'm thinking, "Oh hey, I really liked her, maybe we just fucked things up - I was weak, she rejected me for being all beta, as she should - maybe I should reconnect" - I call her up a couple times, and finally this past Thursday, we have a chat for about 20 minutes. She tells me that she really wants to visit the karaoke place right down the street with me, and that she wants to then, "check out my apartment" (her words). This wasn't after I invited her anywhere or anything - it was entirely her initiative to see me, and her suggestion. She also posted the video, "I feenk your freaky and I like you a lot" on my wall last week. So she's pretty obviously coming at me. Then like, two days after her little "check out your apartment comment", she's in a relationship on Facebook with some guy she met three weeks ago. In fact, I'm pretty sure that when I called her last week, she was on the way to his house to go on a trip with him. So that pretty much killed any respect I had for her. She's planning to cheat with an ex, even before she Facebook officials her relationship, on a guy she met less than a month ago. Like, straight up, ew. How should I deal with this? My thoughts are to fuck her, because she's obviously going to cheat with someone. Though she might just view this as a temporary boyfriend. Seriously, this is behavior I'd expect of an 18 year old girl, not a 28 year old woman. My assumption is that she's trying to play around because she wants to maximize her chances of landing a husband before she's 30. I'm not worried about going oneitis on her anymore - She was the first girl I cared about since I started pickup and I let myself "forget" how to do it, or how to behave. I haven't even talked to her in 9 months, and I've fucked multiple hotter girls since last seeing her about a year ago. How would you deal with this? EDIT: Other realization - she might be trying to inflate her value if she knows I'm coming back at her in order to insure commitment on my part this time. tl;dr: my ex is apparently a cheater. Should I fuck her? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 09, 2014 6:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My last oneitis is unfaithful and desperate - what to do |
Quote: Should I fuck her?
Yes. Of course, unless the smell of her pussy makes your eyes water.Wear a condom. When mission complete tell her to pick her fanny up and fuck off and not to trip over a nipple on her way out.... Keep the emotions out of it! |
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