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Author:  Epic_1 [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Did she want me to hit on her?

I was having a cig outside. A very attractive brunette with spandex, tight shirt, and sunglasses stopped as she was passing me by. She asked me for a light and gave me a big smile, "thank you" after she lit up.

1) was she trying to get me to talk to her or did she actually need a light? I know that's prolly situational to an extent but maybe a percentage answer is best (i.e. 40% she was hitting on you or 80% she just wanted a light etc...).

2) was that just a failed opportunity on my part to hit on her?

thx

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

You should always assume that she hitting on you, ALWAYS

Author:  Cool Hand Luke [ Sat Jun 07, 2014 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Pebble- gives good advice. Always assume...

You missed it. Always talk with them. See if they continue the conversation...

Author:  Epic_1 [ Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Thx for the advice guys.

I think the reality is that I just pussed out.

I'll try to pull the trigger next time.

Author:  alphabro [ Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

If she felt comfortable enough to ask you for a light, you had an opportunity. Especially since she needed something from you, always make her earn the light.

Author:  Epic_1 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Oh man. I didn't even realize that angle. I was sort of chasing her (in my mind) by giving her the lighter when I should've had her chasing me (by at least giving me her name).

Thx!

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 6:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Quote:
I think the reality is that I just pussed out.

I'll try to pull the trigger next time.

I see this more, and more, and more every single day.

STOP BEING A PUSSY!!! :)

Author:  Epic_1 [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

I agree. I might do that "say hello to every girl you see on the street" thing for a few days to get the nerves back in the right place.

Author:  omnicell [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 10:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Hit on her; open, then tell a story!

I do the same thing; I think first! what I'm practicing now; turn n talk, turn n talk, turn n talk! don't think!

Don't worry about the outcome, your looking for her reaction that you counter with another push pull assertive move!

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 22, 2014 3:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did she want me to hit on her?

Doesn't matter if she did or didn't. Lost opportunity.

ALWAYS assume attraction.

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