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| Author: | joker31 [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Date Evaluation Help |
So I met a chick off tinder and went to a bar last night. She was very interested from the get-go and sometimes initiated some things (eg: she suggested I text her instead and gave me her number) She also was very willing to hangout and said how excited she was. She said earlier in the week "she had to bail to hangout with her younger bro she hasn't seen in 3 weeks", to which I said "you haven't seen him in 3 weeks, but you haven't seen me yet" and she quickly flipped to hanging out. Anyways, so we meet up for our date. We talk obviously about some things, I tease and joke around, she's laughing some. We play the 5 questions game for her to buy me a shot. Biggest regret was lack of kino, I touched her hand when possible but we sat across from one another which made it tough. Here's the weird thing, this group of guys were sitting near us and she looked over at a couple times and laughed. Not sure over what, but they were drunk. At this point I wouldn't say she lost interest or anything, but she's looking over every now and again. At this point I want to comfort-build and want to control the interest so I play "The Cube". I get her thinking, I get her imagining, and she seems to enjoy it. She goes out for a smoke... Next thing I know, she comes back in with the guy from the table near us. She's laughing, and says "hey do you want to sit with these guys?" I'm trying to talk with the entire group and get to know everyone, but she and him did a silent "let's go over here". I see them head to the bar themselves, but I try to keep it cool... I don't get mad, but I do check every now and again. They're spending a bit of time with each other between the bar and smoking, and I'm talking to the other guys. They come back and she says "I'm sorry, I went away... I should be spending time here with you" (or something along those lines, but it isn't in a serious tone). I said "you're not obligated to, you're fine" and I start talking with the group more. It's clear I've lost her interest, not really sure how. I turn to her and say "what's your plan?" and she said she's getting a ride from a friend because she can't drive now. Then outta nowhere another guy shows up, an old friend of hers. He introduces himself, and we chat for a bit. I eventually just told her I was leaving and had to get outta here, she didn't budge much obviously. My evaluation: Somewhere I lost interest in her, and when she went out for the smoke and ran into the guy at the table beside us, they obviously spoke outside and hit it off. However I know she didn't leave with him, as I saw him on the train I was on when I left. Any tips on what went wrong? I haven't talked to her since last night, and since she has been the instigator of texts, I'll leave it to her to open up again. Here's where I need the help... If she texts again attempting to apologize, should I freeze her out or tease her about being too boy crazy? I have been rattling off in my mind that when I said during the date that "you're not obligated to, you're fine" (which was in a bit of a cold tone), that I opened the door for her to allowed to flirt with others while with me. Any help is appreciated... Thanks! |
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