Hey guys,
For those out there that are disappointed with their results, just keep in mind that it's a numbers game and that persistence eventually pays off
So, I met this chick who seems to have taken an interest in me, and I am now considering taking her on a first date. The thing is that I don't want to screw it up this time.
First dates have always been a horrible experience for me. I get stressed, there are moments of awkward silence and the girl gets eventually bored with me. I really don't want to repeat that.
I have been thinking and I believe the bad results were also my fault as I didn't choose the right "format" for my date. We would go to some bars and chat for a couple of hours. I really cannot show my true self under these circumstances and end up looking like a boring no-life person. I have also noticed that I shine the most when doing an activity together with a girl (playing pool or bowling, going to some concert/exhibition, etc.).
So, I have been thinking about ways to make this first date more entertaining. I could take this girl to a zoo (to be honest, I love animals but I hate zoos as most of the animals look depressed and sad). I could also take her to an exhibition (there's a temporary exhibition about my country and I have heard many people praise it - I also got free tickets for it and I was looking for an opportunity to go with someone). There are also other possible activities, like indoors rock-climbing, going for cycling in a nearby forest, or simply go for a game of pool (this last one is the perfect place to do kino, you go behind her and teacher how to play, haha)
The girl in question seems quite hot-headed (in a good sense). I noticed that she likes being challenged, she always took the bait when I was teasing her
She doesn't seem super sporty though, so I might rule out any physical activities.What do you guys think? Any advice would be welcome.
Thanks in advance, mates! Cheers