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| Author: | Cupid_007 [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 4:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
So i'm talking w/ a single set girl in a club. Things are going smooth. She's smiling and laughing - clearly enjoying herself. Then.... BOOM!!! Her female friends come in w/ the biggest bullshit excuse ever to drag her away. Something like "We need to go dance..." or "We have to go find our other friend..." And there I am like a helpless crying puppy losing it's precious treat. I've tried to argue by saying "Yea... but I could be her soul-mate. Let us keep talking". (Clearly going against the rule: change her mood, not her mind). PLEASE HELP A BROTHER OUT AND TEACH ME HOW TO STOP THIS FROM HAPPENING AGAIN. |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 4:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
if the friends are coming in open them |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
Yeah, open the friends, get friendly with them so they actually want their friend to hook up with you and they feel safe leaving their friend alone with you. Also, don't command her friends when things like this happen. It shows you're upset at the situation which is a quick turn off. Just be cool about it and either tell the girl you'll see her later or ask if you can go out and dance with them. Or, if they're looking for a friend, chance it and say "That's okay, we can wait here. I'm not going to hide her on you. *wink/grin*" |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 4:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
Ask yourself, is she really enjoying herself with you? In most cases if she is, she will signal to her friends not to interrupt or will stay with you. |
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| Author: | sugarwallz616 [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 6:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4 ... cqtOgua90Q This video explains it perfectly, be bold, take the lead, and do not falter. |
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| Author: | Cupid_007 [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 2:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
Quote: Yeah, open the friends, get friendly with them so they actually want their friend to hook up with you and they feel safe leaving their friend alone with you.
thanks a lot guys.your advice answered my question... i will simply open the interrupt maybe i'll use the best friend's test |
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| Author: | BITmixit [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
Quote: Ask yourself, is she really enjoying herself with you? In most cases if she is, she will signal to her friends not to interrupt or will stay with you.
Nope that's paranoia talking/persuading yourself that she isn't into you when really she hasn't made her made you.You allowing her to talk away with her friends lets her made that decision. Open her friends and gain their interest. Game them a bit and invite them to dance. Take control and you got it. Allow her to have control by believing in bullshit like "She's signalling her friends" or whatever always leads to failure. Consider this. What if her friends are jealous/don't like her receiving attention from ANYONE and she isn't. There are WAY TOO MANY different variables when you think like how you're proposing when really as a male you should think like this. Goal: I want to talk to her. Action: Open her. Goal: You want to dance with her. Action: You tell her to come dance with you. BLOCK: Friend appears and tries to drag her off. Action: Open friend and give her attention something like "Oh you want her to dance with you? how about you show me your skills then, hers are a tad lacking" <Said jokingly = compliance test for the friend + neg for the girl you're aiming to get with. Then you'll either get a shit test like Them: Oh yeah. what makes you think you can judge our dancing You: I am the king of this dancefloor. or Them: FUCK OFF Which means she was looking for a way out = you know she was = you learn from it. Accepting defeat if a friend comes to drag her away is equally as bad as being an utter AFC. Plus ,ost of my female friends enjoy watching one of the others being talked to a girl they know she isn't into/has no hope with her as its funny to watch. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 4:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP! girl's female friends keep cock-blocking me |
Quote: Ask yourself, is she really enjoying herself with you? In most cases if she is, she will signal to her friends not to interrupt or will stay with you.
Agreed, I was going to mention this but didn't want to overcomplicate things.Also, i've had it happen a few times where i've been talking to a woman in a club only for her friends to come up and try pry her away but most of the time these women just tell their friends to go away. Some women are genuinely sheepish and won't argue with their friends, this is mostly because they don't want to give away that they're too interested in you. Basically telling their friends to leave them alone with you is basically saying "I want you. I want to be alone with you." |
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