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Author:  bartm [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  so a confident guy doesn't get affected by other people?
I am trying to get an idea of the mindset of a confident guy or a "playa"

so a confident guy does not get happy or upset by other people?

let's say a confident pua approaches a girl and tells her x, and she reacts by saying "you are awesome, I love you" this does not make the pua happy?

if she says "get away from me you creep" this does not make the pua upset?

a confident pua does not get affected by other people in any way?
Author:  Cdharders [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: so a confident guy doesn't get affected by other people?
He may be affected but it will not alter his decisions or state. It's called being non-reaxtive.
Author:  fanhit [ Mon Apr 14, 2014 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: so a confident guy doesn't get affected by other people?
True self-confidence is being able to be confident about being just the way you are. Take pleasure into your own thoughts and your own life. If you live your life expecting validation from others, you will often get disappointed. Love yourself.

Most people think they need to overcompensate on their weaknesses like say, going from extremely shy to becoming an arrogant extrovert. The latter represents someone who is trying to be better than everybody else.

You want to be somewhere in the middle.

And if a pretty girl says: "get lost, you creep!" take heart that you at least got a reaction from her :) Then just move on.
Author:  MarylandsFinest [ Mon Apr 14, 2014 11:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: so a confident guy doesn't get affected by other people?
He does hes just numbed to bs especially from these slut women out here. Things roll of my shoulders so much now. It took a while tho. Once u stop caring about what other people say or do, and really work on urself and be content with who u are thats when that confidence starts to show and grow. It just illuminates off of u. Women notice it too. Only people who should really affect u are those that matter, i.e close friends, parents, sibling(s), significant other. Because those people are the few people in the world who approach their relationship with u altruistically and are looking out for your best interest. Generally everybody else is just a snake or a rat. My confidence comes from a realist perspective of people, i take them as they are, not ought to be. People are shitty, so dont let their opinions affect u. They dont kno u or wtf uve been through.
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