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| Author: | Tändelei [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 2:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with approaching friends? |
You see a girl in daygame in the supermarket or trainstation. By herself. You talk to her. Then some female friend, male friend, boyfriend, w/e arrives and stands there awkwardly. She looks awkwardly at her friend, smiles at you with an insecure smile as if she wanted to say: "Please do something". The girl you talked to becomes uncommunicative. I tried:
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 3:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with approaching friends? |
No no , these won't work. You have to acknowledge the friend in a friendly way yourself. Say hi or whatever , maybe compliment the friend (if it's not a dude) on her earings or something related to her tastes , not her looks , after which simply state: "I was just talking to your cute friend over here , I promise I won't (kidnap / keep / whatever) her long. Is that cool with you ?" Basically , what you're doing is: -letting the friend know you intend to continue your private conversation with the target -by using the word "cute" you state interest in the target -the kidnap version sends out a playful vibe -you're asking for the friends' permision to continue. Well , not really , you're actually enforcing it , no one will ever reply with "No , that's not cool". However you need that "Ok" from them , because once you get it your target won't feel awkward , the friend doesn't feel awkward and most importantly she won't become uncommunicative because she has her friend's blessing. -also you make a great impression on the friend , which will only work towards your advantage Hope this helps dude. |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 3:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with approaching friends? |
want to state, stay away from the word kidnap if the conversation is new. if at all you feel creepy saying it it will come of that way |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 4:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with approaching friends? |
"Hey there! Your friend looked lonely so I decided to introduce myself to her. I'm Games. *Smile*" Blah, blah, blah. You engage the friend and don't stick to your target. You need to make the friend feel comfortable with you around his/her friend to possibly leave you alone or be okay with you hanging around. Befriend the friend and starve the target of attention for a few minutes then switch back to her. Once you've gained rapport, comfort and interest between them BOTH you can either suggest meeting up again and n-closing("You've been fun/Interesting -- Who would have thought! We should meet up again sometime.") or if they want you around or are comfortable enough with you go for an instant date but show a clear interest in your target without brushing the friend aside. It's like a balancing act. |
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| Author: | Tändelei [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 5:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with approaching friends? |
Quote:
"I was just talking to your cute friend over here , I promise I won't (kidnap / keep / whatever) her long. Is that cool with you ?"
This is just perfection. How do I memorize it?
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| Author: | Tändelei [ Wed Apr 09, 2014 8:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with approaching friends? |
One addition. How would you treat the friend if she's already there, a 2set? Start with "I was just seeing your cute friend over here , I promise I won't (kidnap / keep / whatever) her long. Is that cool with you ?"? |
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