So been sleeping with this girl for a couple of months. We've been friends for a year or so and she told me she liked me so I started sleeping with us. I have decided since then that I like her too and have told her as such. However since then I have started medication for epilepsy that causes me to have wild mood swings, anxious, grumpy and such. It's like a 24/7 period for me for the next 6 months. Woo.
Anyway she's gone home for the next couple of weeks and her texting has been all over the place. Sometimes it's 10 minutes, sometimes its 10 hours. This week would be her period week so her behavior could be down to that. She's stated indirectly to me that she's exclusive to me (she isn't the type of girl that gives up sex easily nor sleeps around or does ONS. She has given her sex up VERY easily to me and I've given her 2 shaking orgasms by now)
I want an LTR with this girl and whilst I want her to see me as myself and not all PUA I don't want to mess it up either but here's where the texts change.
*12 hours from when I last text her*
Her: I'm back home from my spooky Aunties house now. I reckon I've sent you 6 snapchats with 6 different cats, do I have a problem? That one you sent me this morning looks like you haven't shaved...is this true?" <she said after sex she liked my stubble and finds it sexy thus not shaving as I wanna grow one anyway.
Me: You're a slut for cats. You just have to accept what you are. Yeh I'm keeping it, probably shave it *just* before you get back
X*3 hours later*
Her: haha don't try and pretend you're doing this on your own free will, that won't be shaved before I get back ;O. I might cut my break short and come back early. Home is proving so boring X
Me: You shouldn't pretend you're coming back because you're bored. You wanna see me and my amazing beard before it all gets chopped off ;P X
*3 hours later*
Her: I'm not turning this into our usual competition because then you'll actually shave it off. Anything to prove me wrong eh X
// I'd fallen asleep and sent this in the morning.
Me: Morning. I'm proud of you for admitting defeat again. You'll have to wait till you're back before I can show you though
XHer: k, whatever...
Me: Come back soon, We'll have some fun.
My first assumption is that she's having a bad period day and wants me to put in the effort to cheer her up. She has mentioned to a mutual female friend who is a former housemate and thus tells me everything she doesn't know where she stands with me and it annoys her. I personally plan to tell her in person that I want her and am equally as exclusive to her as she is to me but that doesn't matter much.
Anyway...rarely good at reacting to these situations. Is she truly pissed off at me? Is she attention seeking? or simply seeking validation in if I like her or am just using her for sex. She knows me fairly well and knows/has seen me pickup girls easily and has stated that she considers me to be a bit of a slut. I understand that is more alpha to tell her what I want from her but I want to do it in person.
Any response or analysis would also help me with my overthinking as the medication can cause an issue like this to develop into a panic attack if I overthink it thus any response = beneficial and I thank you.