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| Author: | Dzifa [ Sun Apr 06, 2014 12:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hitting the club yesterday |
Hi Pua's, I am 18, and girls and man in the club are older. You should say go to another club. But I don't have that much option. Another question, do you guys like to go to big clubs or smaller ones. I prefer big ones. But again sometimes there isn't that much option. It is also demotivating me. Because I know that nothing is going to happen with elderly girls. I had the feeling that more than three-quarterof the girls were with guys. I don't know if these guys were boyfriends or not, but it was difficult to see who was single and who wasn't. When should you start hitting on a girl? In the begin of the evening it gives me more anxiety to open. And after a few hours, people are more drunk (inclusively me), so it is more easy. Where are more girls? In a bar or in a club? Which kind of music? Yesterday I had this music. https://soundcloud.com/nunodossantos I think 20% was girl. Thanks for thinking with me, Dzifa |
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| Author: | Talz [ Sun Apr 06, 2014 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting the club yesterday |
Quote: Hi Pua's,
Hey man,I am 18, and girls and man in the club are older. You should say go to another club. But I don't have that much option. Another question, do you guys like to go to big clubs or smaller ones. I prefer big ones. But again sometimes there isn't that much option. It is also demotivating me. Because I know that nothing is going to happen with elderly girls. I had the feeling that more than three-quarterof the girls were with guys. I don't know if these guys were boyfriends or not, but it was difficult to see who was single and who wasn't. When should you start hitting on a girl? In the begin of the evening it gives me more anxiety to open. And after a few hours, people are more drunk (inclusively me), so it is more easy. Where are more girls? In a bar or in a club? Which kind of music? Yesterday I had this music. https://soundcloud.com/nunodossantos I think 20% was girl. Thanks for thinking with me, Dzifa Im also a beginner, but my advice is chillout, you seem to be over thinking. No one here will be able to tell you where are more girls and whether you should prefer a club or a bar, it all comes down to personal preference. I myself am more keen on bars, simply because I cant stand the horrible techno music and generally, I prefer the bar SPAM. And who cares if the women are older than you ? Don't over think, just go for whoever you like, play the game, have a good time. When you succeed, its merely a bonus for being social. Thats my take on it. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Sun Apr 06, 2014 7:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting the club yesterday |
I went to a fairly large club yesterday and everyone there were bored, and boring. People were just sitting in groups, not even talking to each other, and definitely not talking to anyone outside their group. People were static. Me and my friend were probably the only two who had a chat with almost everyone there. We never got in state due to the boredome of everyone there (and thus, we were not interested in any of the girls, and none of the girls were interested in anyone in the club at all). A completely shitty night from a PU perspective, but I thought it was quite nice anyway, since I succeeded in opening everyone without rejection. So I would say it doesn't really matter where you go, you are subject to the power of chance. The people who are there will define the evening. |
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| Author: | Dzifa [ Sun Apr 06, 2014 8:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting the club yesterday |
So in short: Don't panic if you have no result with a girl a night. When it doesn't work out, just remember that you have open a lot of people and you only learn by it. I understand you guys completely, I am very motivated by this PUA stuff, so when I go out I just want it all. At the moment I am not satisfied with opening. But that's just me. I will remember your feedback. Thank you guys. You are amazing!  Dzifa |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 1:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting the club yesterday |
Forget about the age since there is nothing you can do about it... Clubs have a rhythm and dynamics, the first couple of hours people are not warmed up, some self conscious and with anxiety. Couple of hours later usually 2-3 hours from opening things get easier, since people are warmed up, and a bit of alcohol in the system. Finally, depending on your skills level and preference, big clubs you can do more numbers game but less control, smaller clubs less numbers game more control of the environment, but easier to burn the venue down.... here is a video i made explaining some of the difference in clubs, make sure player in large and you are not on phone or mac to see annotations: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRbzkSNRiww[/youtube] |
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| Author: | Dzifa [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting the club yesterday |
@skills360, Thanks for replying. I watched the video and you made a lot clear. Thank you. |
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