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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 12:41 am ]
Post subject:  How can I look better

I made a post like this in the outergame section but I thought I'd see what you guys thought of my pics and maybe comment on inner game stuff. So it'd be great to hear "Your fine the way you are", but something happened in my game and it made me start questioning everything. I've seen 4-6 girls and all of the dates ended badly and they sorta would feel that I would eventually kiss them, they knew it was coming and there body language would be cold and they'd push away, I just got bad results and it made me wonder why this is happening.

1) From head to toe what can I do to look better for woman and improve my image? Feel free to discuss everything with me.
2) Am I attractive?

http://i.imgur.com/BhIenGe.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/9r21Sh3.png
http://i.imgur.com/thB4cmB.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/wAxJgWq.jpg
I always wear my jewelry with a colored cloth
http://i.imgur.com/QHMQKPy.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/0QYd4us.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/mmcsQIh.png
http://i.imgur.com/3dVxpkM.jpg
Notice how if I reverse the image my face looks more symmetrical
http://i.imgur.com/Fm24CX5.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/1sJzDLE.png

So here's just some different looks I wear. Mostly it's the Johnny Depp style. I'm looking to improve every part of myself!


(My boots, I really like them! http://i.imgur.com/yEnNVFj.jpg )

Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 12:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

You're fine man. Probably a 7 or 8 out of 10 which is more than enough to get a HB9 if you're banking on looks alone.

You said it yourself: Women getting to the point where they're expecting a kiss. Don't let it get to that point before making your move. There's too much pressure when it's totally coming which is fucking you over. Try kissing them earlier and being confident about it.

I recently found the power of just telling a girl to kiss you before the end of the night. "Come here. Give me a kiss." You're taking control, showing confidence and women really dig that. It's out of nowhere, it's not that awkward end of the night kiss where there's too much kissing involved and it's a flat out "Just do it." The only way they will say no is if they don't find you attractive in the slightest.

Try it next time. Build up comfort with a girl then, about halfway through the night when you're beside one another and don't have to move closer, just go for the kiss. When you go for it shove all your doubts out of your head and say "It's now or never."

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

The pictures immediately reminded me of TAFKAP

http://www.inflexwetrust.com/2011/06/07 ... -birthday/

He used to be one of the sexiest men in the world according at least to a magazine survey of several hundred or so women.

You'll get laid like a rockstar once you've fixed your inner game.

I think this kind of style is what girls in the 18 to 20 years old range like a lot: http://i.imgur.com/mmcsQIh.png You can easily nail MILFs with the suited fashion.

Author:  Zirk13 [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

a small thing and others may see it to, the eyebrows I would thin them a bit more, with the from and soul patch, may make it zing out more

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Btw dude, for your privacy, take down those pictures once you're satisfied with the feedback.

Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Man, you look good. Your style is good too. If you get turned down it's not the looks for sure.

My advice however would be to eat shitloads and put on 10-15 kgs of muscle :D

Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 4:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

That's was really nice of you guys for your comments - I appreciate it. I know a lot of you guys are my friends and don't want to say anything negative to me, but if my looks aren't that good or if there's something about me that would girls away, you can tell me, no worries :)

I'll deff work ok my eyebrows that was a great idea!!

On the downside: with shoes I'm 5'7 and small framed, girls don't sense that I'm a man for some reason. And I'm not built at all, like why would a girl choose me over someone who doesn't hv a muffin top and flabby arms?
I don't have big muscles or have a V shape body and there's some fat in my thighs.

Hellhound: Prince? Really? Haha that's funny - out if all people. Sometimes ppl think I'm slightly Asian or I've gotten Michael Jackson once lol. But usually ppl stop me and say Johnny Depp. Hey, feel free to contact me back via producteev or email and let me know how to begin the lessons :D

Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Apr 02, 2014 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Ah, 5'7". You don't look that small in your pictures. I could see where that would be an issue but there's an answer for that: Go for smaller women. In general women find guys that are taller than them attractive, not just "taller" in general. And from my own personal experience smaller women are a hell of a lot better in bed. You can twist and turn, move 'em all about and do whatever the fuck you want with very little strain. There's a lot of women out there who are 5'4, 5'5 and they're just as hot with the added bonus of being cute and kinky.

Still, it's not great saying "Go for short women, it's your only solution" -- That's not what i'm getting at -- i'm just saying women generally go for men that are taller than them. It's one of those checks a woman does in her head but if you make up for it in other aspects it's not going to be an issue. For me I just don't let the difference bother me or even notice it at all and i've had quite a few taller women(Even though I prefer shorter women).

Also, being muscular isn't a staple of being attractive. Most women find it unattractive, at least the seriously buffed up guys. Being toned and having an athletic build is what women tend to like. Athletic + toned = hot.

Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Thu Apr 03, 2014 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Quote:
Ah, 5'7". You don't look that small in your pictures. I could see where that would be an issue but there's an answer for that: Go for smaller women. In general women find guys that are taller than them attractive, not just "taller" in general. And from my own personal experience smaller women are a hell of a lot better in bed. You can twist and turn, move 'em all about and do whatever the fuck you want with very little strain. There's a lot of women out there who are 5'4, 5'5 and they're just as hot with the added bonus of being cute and kinky.

Still, it's not great saying "Go for short women, it's your only solution" -- That's not what i'm getting at -- i'm just saying women generally go for men that are taller than them. It's one of those checks a woman does in her head but if you make up for it in other aspects it's not going to be an issue. For me I just don't let the difference bother me or even notice it at all and i've had quite a few taller women(Even though I prefer shorter women).

Also, being muscular isn't a staple of being attractive. Most women find it unattractive, at least the seriously buffed up guys. Being toned and having an athletic build is what women tend to like. Athletic + toned = hot.
Well that's good for me because I acruslly prefer smaller girls, I think they're cuter, ha.
I just don't understand why girls push me away so much -- I'm so frustrated, maybe it's what I'm saying or the way in acting? And I'm not running proper game?

You said this, "You're fine man. Probably a 7 or 8 out of 10 which is more than enough to get a HB9 if you're banking on looks alone." For me to get a 9 is a big statement you just said when right now I can't get a 6 or anything at all. IT'S SO CONFUSING! 1 possibility is that girls find me attractive I just don't act direct or be masculine. Thanks for all your nice words everyone, part of me wishes I was gifted at game or had really potential like Hellhound said, but for me it's so hard to believe..

I feel soo unnatractive man, I feel ugly -- like I'm cursed... I can't catch a break, like I think girls find me repulsive... Idk what I'm doing wrong I'm starting to think what if game is fake and it just makes guys face there fears and get girls they would get anyway if they were confident. I don't know how to fix my issues with girls and get a hot girl! I'm actually 5'4, I wear boots.

It's like I can't figure it out. It's either I'm unattractive or my entire understanding of game is off. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

Author:  GamesSN [ Thu Apr 03, 2014 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

I can tell what you're doing wrong is being so hard on yourself. You obviously don't have high self-esteem if you talk about yourself like that and I can tell you that women pick up on that big time! Just had a conversation the other day with a chick about how she dated a few guys that were so down in confidence it made everything awkward and unattractive.

If you don't have the confidence women are going to notice this but don't worry, we all go through it at some point and have our ups and downs. I had this sure thing a few months back, cute HB8, great to talk to but I wasn't confident, didn't go for the close and shied away too much. Thing is: This chick was crazy into me before but at the end of the date it was clear I just wasn't confident enough to handle her so I got rejected when I went for the k-close at her door. Since then I fixed it, worked on my inner game and stopped caring so much. Ended up bagging a few HB8s and one or two HB9s(Cute HBs as I tend to value them more than SHBs).

Work on your inner game and you'll see some significant improvements.

Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Fri Apr 04, 2014 9:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Quote:
That's was really nice of you guys for your comments - I appreciate it. I know a lot of you guys are my friends and don't want to say anything negative to me, but if my looks aren't that good or if there's something about me that would girls away, you can tell me, no worries :)

I'll deff work ok my eyebrows that was a great idea!!

On the downside: with shoes I'm 5'7 and small framed, girls don't sense that I'm a man for some reason. And I'm not built at all, like why would a girl choose me over someone who doesn't hv a muffin top and flabby arms?
I don't have big muscles or have a V shape body and there's some fat in my thighs.

Hellhound: Prince? Really? Haha that's funny - out if all people. Sometimes ppl think I'm slightly Asian or I've gotten Michael Jackson once lol. But usually ppl stop me and say Johnny Depp. Hey, feel free to contact me back via producteev or email and let me know how to begin the lessons :D
You look like prince yeah :D The haircut I'm not sure about though. But I'm not a girl I'm sure there are loads that dig this shit :)

Small frame ? Hit the gym instead of posting here you fucking pussy. I know you do this already. At least I hope so. Guys with small frame have a really easy time to get muscular and this will help you with a lot of confidence issues as well. No one comes out from there mum with big muscles otherwise women would die left and right giving birth.

With regards to your height. Well it is what it is and no need to sugar coat girls like tall guys. IN GENERAL. Which means not all of them do. Go for the ones that are smaller as GamesSN said. 5'7" is not bad anyway. You are not a midget.

I quote you here: "with shoes I'm 5'7 and small framed, girls don't sense that I'm a man for some reason" - So you had a girl telling you this right ? "I don't sense that you are a man because you are short" Did anyone tell you this in real life ? No ? It's in your fucking head mate.

I quote you again:
"That's was really nice of you guys for your comments - I appreciate it." this is where your comment should end.

But no you disqualify everything by continuing.

" I know a lot of you guys are my friends and don't want to say anything negative to me, but if my looks aren't that good or if there's something about me that would girls away, you can tell me, no worries"

I bet my ass that if a girl compliments you, you do the same thing in real life. If you do that she will disappear within a blink of an eye.

You need to get your head straight mate. I'm going to PM you to recommend a book to read.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Apr 04, 2014 10:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Quote:

I quote you again:
"That's was really nice of you guys for your comments - I appreciate it." this is where your comment should end.

But no you disqualify everything by continuing.

" I know a lot of you guys are my friends and don't want to say anything negative to me, but if my looks aren't that good or if there's something about me that would girls away, you can tell me, no worries"

I bet my ass that if a girl compliments you, you do the same thing in real life. If you do that she will disappear within a blink of an eye.
That.

I think that was a very accurate assessment. Fix it.

Author:  prince_prince [ Fri Apr 04, 2014 2:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Nice man! I like your style!

Personally I dont think you need to work on anything else.

Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Apr 04, 2014 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

Work on your mindset, that is the most important.

Like and accept yourself the way you are. WHen you are confident and comfortable about yourself, girls will notice and will like you too :)

Author:  DboTheHero [ Fri Apr 04, 2014 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I look better

You're a good looking guy (no homo).

Fitness is attractive so stay active, but this doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a musclehead to be attractive.

As for style, it's completely subjective. Wear whatever makes you feel confident and, importantly, wear what fits your personality.

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