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Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 7:48 am ]
Post subject:  Never Been so Confused
I met this girl at a party the other night. She is friends with one of my friends gf so we kinda new of each other before we met and right from the start there was chemistry. Through out the night we danced, made out multiple times and held hands it was almost couple-like and she ended up asking for my number and I walked her home having a good conversation just getting to know each other. We kissed good night and she wanted me to text her when I safely got to my car and she replied with a :)

So I ended up texting her the next day and got no reply.I am lost to why I didn't get a reply after such a good night. We were both sober and it has been 3 days since I sent the text so my question is what could have happened and should I send another text?
Author:  BITmixit [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
whats the text content. Can't provide help without the facts.

Most likely you'll have to give it a week then just bait her with a random opener.
Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:28 am ]
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I made it real basic with "hey whats up" I have been thinking about this and I know if I were to send another I would personalize it, but I didn't think it would make her not reply based on the whole experience we had.
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
Sometimes things just happen without it being your fault. Don't read into it too much. But I'm glad to see that you aren't being one of those guys that keep sending texts after you don't get a response.
Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
Yeah it does suck not getting clarity but I don't want to be the weird guy and I have a really good lady friend that has told me what to and not to do, anything about texting her again though? Yay or nay?
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
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Yeah it does suck not getting clarity but I don't want to be the weird guy and I have a really good lady friend that has told me what to and not to do, anything about texting her again though? Yay or nay?
IMHO...you sent your text. No need to do anything else. Some will say another text is okay, but that's your call. But my thinking is if you send another text you start to DLV. But if you make it to a third...you definitely DLV.
Author:  BITmixit [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 10:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
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Yeah it does suck not getting clarity but I don't want to be the weird guy and I have a really good lady friend that has told me what to and not to do, anything about texting her again though? Yay or nay?
nay till next week. The thing is that you text her something dull and boring. She's not that invested yet so she hasn't got a reason to text you back. You should have made her want to text you back.

Overall, like another user says sometimes things happen that aren't in your control nor your favour. This is why PUA teaches the "go out, get girls numbers" and such so if one fails its not a big deal. Girls sense this kind of mentality and it builds attraction.

Just send her a text next week. A bit more interesting. Look up openers. A good one is the food one, just text her something like "So chinese food?" then she'll message something like "lol? urrrm, Chicken Chow Mein" then you can be cheeky and go "Good taste, come make me some ;)"
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 1:24 pm ]
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Hey mate I'm gonna offer a couple suggestions. 1st NEVER ask a girl for advice on another girl!! In my experience they tell you what they think they want not what they really want in hindsight anytime I asked a girl for advice on another girl if I would have done the exact opposite of what she said it would have worked out.

2nd the hey what's up txt is dull and boring so she could possibly be thinking if he wants me he's gonna have to do better than that. Like another user said you're gonna have to keep her interest level peaked until you're at a point where a text like that is ok. What I usually do if a girl doesn't reply is use the I'm divorcing you routine. Its never not worked for me that's what I would suggest to you.

3rd I'd say send 1 more text, but no more if she doesn't reply this is your last chance at so make it count make it an exciting text that makes her want to reply!!

4th like other users said it could be something totally out of your control. I knew a girl one time we were talking about musice one night and she just stopped replying. I thought no big deal she just fell asleep, so I txt her the next day to ask her if she's going to the concert we were talking about last night no reply. So I text her about a week later no reply so I said fuck it and moved on about a month later she started liking all my shit on fb. Anyway point of the story is there was absolutely nothing I could have done there she for no reason stopped replying.

Anyway mate hope that helps good luck!!
Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
So I'm thinking about asking her out to do something this weekend. Good/bad move?
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 4:57 pm ]
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I wouldn't ask her right away. Get her interested in you 1st never ask a girl to meet up in the 1st 5 txts. Plus you hung out with this girl she didn't reply to your txt and you want to reward her with your time and effort after she's done nothing for it? What I'm gonna reccomend is go to www.badboylifestyle.com download his free e-book on text game google text game overview send her something creative get her to reply qualify her then when you think she's done enough suggest a date. Think about it like this you're a man with standards your time is valuable why would you just give it to a girl who can't take 2 min to return your text? I'm also gonna suggest after a few texts call her. A strong phone call will set you apart from any other guy that's after her and have her chasing you.

Anyway hope that helps good luck!!
Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
Alright thanks that helps. And as far as Facebook goes, can I add her without it being needy or wait to see how it goes the next time I text and see how she responds before doing it?
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
Definitely don't add her on fb. There's no way you can do that without coming off as creepy or needy. Just send her a creative opening text. There's a thread on here with some really good openers check that out. How long has it been since you sent the txt she didn't reply to?

This is what I send a girl when she doesn't reply.

Hi ---- this relationship isn't working for me anymore... I want a divorce!! Have your lawyer send me the papers. I'll be keeping the house cars and money, you can keep our bratty kids and stupid cat :)

Nothing is ever a sure thing, but I've never had that not work. It may not be right for your situation that's I reccomend looking up other openers and what not. If you find something you like let us know and we can help you fine tune it.

Good luck!!
Author:  Mrwire [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 11:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
I feel like that opener would come off as too weird but I sent the text on sunday so its been 3 days.
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Thu Feb 27, 2014 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
Ya that txt is most effective in a situation where you're talking to a girl have some rapport built and she suddenly stops replying. 3 days you gotta act quickly or you're gonna be a thing of the past to her. What I suggest you do is go into the search on here look for the thread of openers, find one you like that suits you're personality use it get a few texts rolling then move into a phone call. Just don't think too much keep it light, funny, sensual, don't be needy, and remember less is more so short and sweet.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Feb 28, 2014 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Never Been so Confused
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I met this girl at a party the other night. She is friends with one of my friends gf so we kinda new of each other before we met and right from the start there was chemistry. Through out the night we danced, made out multiple times and held hands it was almost couple-like and she ended up asking for my number and I walked her home having a good conversation just getting to know each other. We kissed good night and she wanted me to text her when I safely got to my car and she replied with a :)

So I ended up texting her the next day and got no reply.I am lost to why I didn't get a reply after such a good night. We were both sober and it has been 3 days since I sent the text so my question is what could have happened and should I send another text?

Why didn't you fuck her that night?
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