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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 5:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to bounce back from this? |
There's a girl I met through friends. She's into me and it was fairly obvious the last time I met her in a social setting(Party), so much so her friends were telling us to kiss. She got embarrassed, smiled and said she was shy. I was caught off guard, didn't know what to say, didn't make a move or even acknowledge her(Read: Ran like a little bitch). Seeing as I lost so much face in not making a move on her how the hell do I bounce back from this? I feel like my frame is shattered around her and her opinion of me would totally have been changed. I want to close her next time I see her but how can I come back from this? Also, i'm pretty much seen as a rock star in the group at this point. I feel that's hurt me more as I didn't take control of the situation with the girl. |
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| Author: | Donston [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 5:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
Just say exactly what you just wrote ... to her. Saying anything else will just seem fake .... |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 5:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
"I ran like a bitch from you last time. You're cute, let's hook up."? |
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| Author: | Donston [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
Almost within 1 to 3 seconds of seeing her ... commit and immediately introduce yourself. The longer you wait to talk to her the more you will get in your head and you will lose that spontaneity and fire. Me: "I was overwhelmed by your sexiness last time! I had to build confidence to meet you. My name is GameSN. Pleasure to meet you." But, I like your way better! Sounds more like you! What makes this work is that you are CONGRUENT with how you feel. Going against how you feel is just FAKE and she will sense this. - Offer hand shake ... laser beam eye contact with her's. Add masculinity by imagining head butting her with your eye contact to develop that intensity. The idea is to answer the questions she is thinking. - What she is thinking: 1) Why did he run away last time? - Answered by ... you think she is hot and you were caught off guard ... which was true. 2) Can he face the pressure of drawing the attention of everyone around us. - Approaching hard and quick will cause not only her to react to you ... so will everyone else in the room. All eyes will be on you ... How bold can you be! 3) Will he run again ^_^? * Don't knock on her door ... fucking break it down! * A high % of the time the girl rejects a guy or creepied out by him because he is being fake. Interaction is ignited because you are congruent with how you feel ... show commitment and confidence by being honest even when people are watching and judging u. But, don't worry you won't even notice spectators because you are maintaining laser eye contact with the girl ^_^! * Ask yourself: "What would I do differently if I could do all over again?" ... Once you find the solution ... repeat that solution so it becomes a habit. So next time you are off guard by the pressure of hot girls and drawing attention from the people around you ... You will know what to do because you've practiced it so many times O_O. Sincerely, Donston PS: If you feel nervous ... change the word "nervous" with "excited" ^_^. Nervousness and excitement are the same feeling inside your body ... but it's up to you to interpret it as a bad thing or a uplifting thing :p. Train yourself to love and be addicted to this feeling of EXCITeMENT ... |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
Quote: "I ran like a bitch from you last time. You're cute, let's hook up."?
I think you just go genuine... you say this -- but worded better:"Listen, all that crap was silly and honestly I didn't want to make you uncomfortable"... |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 6:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
Makes sense. I'll try it next time I meet her. If it's too late or doesn't go well at least I tried to salvage it! |
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| Author: | Donston [ Sat Feb 22, 2014 9:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to bounce back from this? |
Quote: Makes sense.
Yes yes, everything is reference experience for the next time that happens to you. But, the next you will be prepared because you experienced already! That's how you get good at game ^_^ ... I'll try it next time I meet her. If it's too late or doesn't go well at least I tried to salvage it! Take action to get reference experience! Donston |
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