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Author:  bartm [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 4:59 am ]
Post subject:  a couple of questions
Hello

I have been really practicing lately and I have got some questions. if you could answer 1 or more than 1, that would be great.

1) what do you say when a girl says "I dont know if I should take that as an insult or a flattery"?

2) what do you do when a girl says "I just had a long day and don't feel like speaking"? do you just leave, or push more?

3) Mystery says at first, you should ignore the girl that you like and only talk to her friends. This way, she will get jealous and try to get your attention. Now my question is, HOW LONG do you keep ignoring her? At what point do you start paying attention to her?

4) I have decided to get desentisized to rejection. So my goal for the next few days is to get rejected as much as possible. But what is the definition of a "rejection"? if I say "Hi" and she doesn't say "Hi" back, is that a rejection? or I have to ask for her number and get denied, and that and only that is considered a rejection?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: a couple of questions
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1) what do you say when a girl says "I dont know if I should take that as an insult or a flattery"?
I have yet to experience this where a girl verbally tells me something like that. However, every time I see the nonverbal equivalent ( a frown, a giggle suddenly turning into a serious look), I immediately shift to a new topic so the girl is always giggling and smiling.
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2) what do you do when a girl says "I just had a long day and don't feel like speaking"? do you just leave, or push more?
I have yet to experience this too where a girl verbally tells me something like that. For insights, when I see the nonverbal signs that a girl is not in the mood, I ignore and don't interact with her at all.
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3) Mystery says at first, you should ignore the girl that you like and only talk to her friends. This way, she will get jealous and try to get your attention. Now my question is, HOW LONG do you keep ignoring her? At what point do you start paying attention to her?
I can say that a major chunk of my game is based on a lot Mystery's ideas and approaches. However, I now focus on sarging girls who are horny at the moment and stay in set sarging JUST one girl from 30 minutes to one hour until I have isolated her.

Look for the nonverbal signs of horniness and you can go direct and NOT ignore girls. A horny girl is much easier to isolate.
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4) I have decided to get desentisized to rejection. So my goal for the next few days is to get rejected as much as possible. But what is the definition of a "rejection"? if I say "Hi" and she doesn't say "Hi" back, is that a rejection? or I have to ask for her number and get denied, and that and only that is considered a rejection?
It's only a rejection if you think it is. There's no black and white. It goes something like this:

1. You eyefuck her and she eyefucks you back so you get to #2.

2. You touch her hair for more than 2 minutes. She pulls back.

3. Since she pulled back, you hold her hand for more than 2 minutes. She doesn't pull back so you get to #4.

4. You touch her face. She frowns.

Now, if all you're getting are resistance and non-compliance, it makes sense to eject and sarge another girl.

CAUTION: If a girl is not eyefucking you at all, don't touch her hair or hold her hand for more than 1 minute. It's all about calibration and escalation.
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