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Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
Good afternoon alphapack and thanks for reading my post, a good weekend to all.





So straigh to my question : Why do we disqualify our interest in an HB for later on be telegraphing statements of interest and intent ?




Is this some kind of uncoscious process in the HBs mind ?



Usually i disqualify my interest but it doest work pretty good as i dont manage to come back from it. Last time i was playing this game with the HB...."you just win 10 points for that" i told her....."you just lost 2 points for that" and so on........ and she took the hoop and told me something like "and for you Tiago, you are on -1 points now"........ that i replied "What makes you think i want to win points anyway ?




So disqualifying totally my interest, i have much doubts now i can comeback from it....as im guessing by the face she made she subunderstood that i am not interested. (it felt quite like a NEG)



Opinions are welcomed !


:)
Author:  GumShoe [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
I always understood the disqualification as being used in order to get the girl to be initially open to you. That way she won't be defensive that you're hitting on her, when she doesn't find you physically attractive.
Then you express interest when she's enjoying the interaction.
Author:  CESARE [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
Quote:
I always understood the disqualification as being used in order to get the girl to be initially open to you. That way she won't be defensive that you're hitting on her, when she doesn't find you physically attractive.
It's approaching "under the radar"!
Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
In this case do you think thats whats happening ?







I tend to disqualify or neg my interest in her very clearly and strong way and i think many hbs do really think i really have not even a bit of interest in their personallities.....





opinions are welcomed

:)
Author:  neatshot [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 4:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
Fala, xará!

Feliz de ver outro Tiago aqui kkkk

Nos poucos meses que venho estudando e praticando o Mystery Method e etc. eu percebi que se deve ter muito cuidado com desqualificar e negs. Um dos pontos que eu simplesmente esquecia era que o principal objetivo do neg é ser engraçado. Basicamente você estará dizendo que não quer, mas o objetivo é justamente ter aquela ponta de dúvida. Se você for levado a sério o efeito que você tá querendo não vai acontecer.

Abraços!
Author:  CESARE [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
Your neg shouldn't be too heavy. You have to be neg her but you have to be playful at the same time, otherwise you may go to far away from her. And don't neg her for too long. When you talk at the group she's in you may talk to the others and neg her for let's say 5-10 minutes, but then you have to direct your attention on her (when u are the leading man of the group!!) and isolate her.
Don't exagerate with negs. They are powerful, but only if you use them well :)
Author:  GamesSN [ Fri Feb 21, 2014 9:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why Disqualifying our Interest works ?
http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions ... cation-dq/

It depends on the situation. Disqualify if her interest isn't high enough in you. When you tease her and tell her you're losing interest in her(Which is what you were doing) as if you're analysing everything she does it comes off as arrogant and obnoxious. A bit of arrogance is good but too much is really bad and blatantly telling her she did something wrong as she does it is bad, really bad and only comes across as dickish.

You should only DQ if a girl isn't receptive of your advances, as in you're talking to her, actively hitting on her and she is visibly or verbally not accepting of it and wants you to leave her alone based on this perception of you(You hitting on her). You DQ at that point as a statement to her which indicates you're just the fun, flirty guy and she shouldn't take your advances too serious. It puts her at ease and has a trigger effect of making her question why you're not actually interested in her which translates to interest. If the girl is already interested in you and doesn't mind your advances Disqualifying only hurts your game as this girl was yours anyway and now you're essentially telling her "No, I don't like you. I know you like me but I don't like you." she'll only be hurt by it and turn from you.
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