I know judging from the title that the natural response is "she's not interested" but that's not the case.
I got with this girls friend 3 weeks ago. At the weekend there was a party where she told me she liked me. Ive liked her for awhile but always kept it secret due to personal reasons but I just grabbed her, kissed her and told her she was coming for a drink with me later.
Then she got ill. Tonsilitus, really annoying but in the (lengthy) text she sent me apologising she said she definitely wanted to rearrange. I did but then forgot it was my friends birthday so had to rearrange again. Ended up being Valentines Day. Date went insanely well. F-Closed and spent half the day with her the next day. She was also very "we should definitely do this again" and all that.
Then I went out on a bender with the bois that night and had work the next day so didn't feel like communicating with her till I was on top form. Was going to send her a msg today to plan the next meetup (was gonna keep it simple, just dinner round hers, sexy cheese platter and some nice wine then fuck the shit out of her) but she just sent me a text saying.
Her: "I've contracted Tonsilitus again, I think you are to blame mister. Unless you have it now...if you do please forgive me
x"Whilst the texts isn't a negative one or a "yeh don't even bother arranging a second date" sort of thing its just frustrating as hell as now I don't know how to play it. Am I aloud to be sensitive/compassionate/caring after a first date f-close or do I keep my cheeky lad frame or bait her/mysterious her? aka "Shame I had so much fun stuff planned for you. It was going to be magical...;P"
Any advice appreciated
