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Author:  bartm [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 6:10 am ]
Post subject:  negative interpretation of ambiguous events
I have this problem. In a nutshell, it's "negative interpretation of ambiguous events"

in other words, I interpret everything in the most negative way possible. If a girl tells me "have a good day" that means she is trying to get rid of me.

If a girl looks at the floor when I talk to her, that means she thinks I am a creep and doesn't want me there.

if a girl is being nice, that means she doesn't like me and she is just pretending because she feels bad for me.

In every interaction I get out within 20 seconds of getting in, because there is always something that implies to me the girl doesn't like me or thinks I am a creep or whatever negative thing I happen to come up with at that moment.

I don't expect an internet forum to fix my problem, but any comments?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 7:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: negative interpretation of ambiguous events
I used to feel that way when I was a kid.

Having grown up in a single mom household, discipline to get compliance was along the lines of endless nagging (saying the same thing over and over again peppered with insults) and public humiliation. All of that bad experience led me to believe that girls didn't like or want me at all.

But those negative thoughts changed once I started fucking girls and they always came back for more. Back then, my problem was how to get girls to ride my cock, but once I'm banging them, everything fell into place.

You'll have to be horny enough, want it so bad, and become jaded and blase to pull it off. Once you reach that stage, you'll automatically see things in a different, more positive light.

After all, when you're down and scraping the bottom of the barrel, there's no other way but up and out of that barrel.

Just have faith in your dick and you'll get out of your rut. Again, trust your cock to change your life for the better. As long as you're doing things to improve your life day-to-day, you have nowhere to go but UP.
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