Hey all,
Hope you all had a great Valentine's Day hehe
I got a question about those IOI's. Lately I am quite confused about them.
On Friday (Valentine's day) I was at my faculty where we had a project going on there was this girl I've been talking to only via Facebook a little bit. We were like hanging together almost the whole day and I started to like her. At the end od the day, when she wanted to go home, I wanted to escort her back home, but she didn't want it.
1 hour later we were sending us messages and she was teasing me I already miss her, and I admit it in said I will come at her place. She agreed and I went to her with a bottle of vine. At her place we were talking, well she did for most of the time for about 5 hours! I thought it went fine and at some point she asked me if I massage her a bit. So I did and I thought it's the perfect timing to escalate to the next level
I started at her shoulders and then I remembered what I read in Strauss' book and I started to down on her. She let me massage her butt for few minutes and then she stopped me; she said it's only touching. Then we stopped and decided to go to bed. Firstly, she offered me her roommates bed, but I made it clead that I wanted to sleep with her and she agreed. In the bed I wanted to do some spooning, but she didn't let me go to close on her. I remember I almost touched her boob by accident and she immediately grabed my arm and put it lower on her stomach.
Even though I thought it went fine I didn't get a kiss. I guess I failed, because at that 5 hour span I wasn't able to sexually escalate. To admint I didn't know how to. It was the first time that situation happened to me!!
But I am now not sure, were there more than enough IOI's? Or am I friendzoned? I think she is quite a shy girl, so I think I escaleted maybe to quickly?? What about the next step? Am I still in the game?