Hi everyone.
It's my first time using pua forums and I'm from Brazil, so.. my english is REALLY BAD.
But, here we go..I was in a relationship for 10 months, and now it's over. But we are still talking, we have the same friends, it's a big deal for her and for now, the only thing I can do to avoid problems with them if i want to pickup another girl is the "online game".
I really do not appreciate it, but there is a girl that for a couple of years I am waiting for the right moment to try something with her. She is 16 years old (I am 19) and as you may expect she uses a lot of social sites and apps, and the online game MUST be used at least at the beggining.
The first time we talked was when talking with a friend of hers, I said something about this girl. I have really high value with her friend and she liked very much the idea and introduced us by creating a SPAM group.
I did a really good job, I think, i used a lot of techniques, didn't show interest, throwed negs, made her curious, and I was rewarded with tons of IDIs. Short and direct talks, waited for like 4 days to chat again... But, as I know, she has really high standards and she is really hard to pickup.. I am pretty sure that I have a high value with her.. But here is:
Two days ago, I texted her, got really good answer.. And I gave her some IOI with a false time restriction, and said that i was going to call her later.. She said: "No.. Text me.. I am shy".. Later.. i texted her.. I will try to translate:
Me: I'M CALLING YOU..
Her: WAIT.. I'M WORKING
Me: YOU'RE KIDDING WITH ME.. (We talked about the fact she did'nt work, earlier)
And that's it.. No more answer.. For the first time, I really feel that I lost value. And I feel that if i begin talking again i will lose even more... It hapenned for almost 2 days ago.. I am just wondering what to do now with this specific girl. She is not going to start the conversation. What to do now? Is she testing me?
TY Puas.
