I'll keep this brief for the OP:
- • I met this girl online about 2 months ago. We couldn't meet up until last month (so really only met face to face about 5 weeks ago)
- • Been on 5 dates so far. On dates 4 and 5 we ended up having sex. Got another date in 2 days and more than likely we're gonna go back to mine again. Sounds great so far? Yes. Here's my problem:
She doesn't seem to want a relationship. I bought up that I don't like just sleeping around, I like for things to potentially go somewhere, eventually, with whoever I date. she replied: "That's unusual for someone your age?"
- • We spoke about relationships (I know my bad..shouldn't have drunk that much) and she said she doesn't want one because she "likes being free". First night we slept together I can't remember how we got on to this topic - again I blame drink - but she replied to something I must've said "haha I'm not going to be your girlfriend" and I was like "I'm not asking you to be! We've just met! For me it's pointless seeing someone if there is no possibility that they ever want a relationship, it's just a waste of time otherwise. I just don't want to waste your time or mine. "
- • She only wants to see me once a week, no more. She says she "likes being alone". I'm always initiating texts but recently I left it 2 days without texting her because I didn't wanna seem clingy/needy (I probably am) and explained that I don't wanna over-text her... and she actually text me after 2 days of me not texting her saying "this is me wanting to text you".
I'll add more info in my replies - didn't want to make this too long
I really appreciate the help in advance.