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| Author: | chills123 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 6:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help me snatch her! |
I won't go into detail, but i want to meet with this one girl. Long story short, she messaged me on a dating site, we hit it off for a bit, i wanted to meet her and apparently she wanted to meet me also, we both exchanged numbers on the site, shes a pretty busy girl and told me her schedule varies so she told me to tell her when I'm free, I told her I might be free on the weekend, later on i told her saturday/sunday is good for me, she had work, we didn't meet, i kind kept pushing the whole "meet up" thing which is my fault, and i could see her kinda dodging the question. I mean she doesn't know me that well, we're both 19, and live like 30-40 mins away from each other. Anyways i kinda messed up, let the situation cooldown, didn't contact her and she hasn't contacted me either. I actually want to meet her but i feel like she wants to know a bit more about me. I mean girls on dating sites usually just ignore if they lose interest, but she still replied back to whatever i said, but like i said... kinda dodging the meet up question. I deleted my dating site profile because that shits stupid, and i still have her number and i want to text her but not sure what to say.. and i need help. How do i fix this situation to just kinda rewind it and start over? I feel like i was a bit pushy and want to just... get to know her a bit more you know. I want something that will make her reply to me and like.. get involved into the conversation. Make her forget about whatever the hell i said. Also when she said she had work she didn't ask to reschedule. I asked her a couple times about the idea but she kept dogeing the question. We exchanged like 4-6 messages and she was involved in the conversation and told me what she does and all that. I told her we should meet up sometime and she was so into it, like yeah! totally! blah blah. Even after that she was going along with it all that shit. Nothing i could of said to make her lose interest and she basically gave me control of when to meet up, but she had work and it was like 1 AM when we talked about it and she said she was very tired... idk. |
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| Author: | THEVi [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 8:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
well u have another option too. you can find another new girl to start chatting with, while also talking to the girl u have met on the dating site.that way u wont feel so much the need to meet with her, and also maybe meet up faster with the new girl |
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| Author: | chills123 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 8:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
Quote: well u have another option too. you can find another new girl to start chatting with, while also talking to the girl u have met on the dating site.that way u wont feel so much the need to meet with her, and also maybe meet up faster with the new girl
Like i said already, i deleted the profile. I don't really want to meet a new girl anyways, i think shes cool and we would get along. We have things in common and i find the things she does is attractive. I want to text her, just don't know what to say. I don't want to say something stupid that will make her not reply you know what i mean.
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| Author: | jane28 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 9:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
if you want to have a conversation with her again, ask her right away. You did make shits about her and thats the worst thing you did you can at least make it up to her, she deserves to have an apology from you. |
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| Author: | chills123 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 9:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
Quote: if you want to have a conversation with her again, ask her right away.
Wait huh? What shits lol. Also i was thinkin about starting the conversation with something like this, "Lets roll back all the way to the 'whys this gorgeous lady messaging me' part and get to know each other a bit more? Where are you from?"
You did make shits about her and thats the worst thing you did you can at least make it up to her, she deserves to have an apology from you. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 1:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
I've been here before. The most effective thing you can do is start a role playing situation. Use the I'm divorcing you routine. Keep that going for a bit then have a normal comfort building convo, but remember keep it light keep it sensual and don't be needy. When it comes to setting up a date call her don't txt be confident and direct if she says she's busy, but doesn't offer a reshedule step away for a while give her time to wonder why you're not txting and come back to you. What has she done to deserve all this effort you're putting in? It doesn't sound like she's put any in. |
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| Author: | venidos [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
Ppl that dont have the time for a date have no time for a relation, and since you met her on a dating site i doubt that she has no time so it could be shes already out of it. Simply ask her when she has time instead of comming up with days yourself, if she then stil says that she has no time its probably already over on her side. Also if she answers with i probably have time in 3+ weeks its probably a call off sign, i had this once with a girl living one and a half our driving by train distance, she said like i have time in a month and i sayed somth like hell no we are not gonna wait that long to meet up, how about next week friday night. She said ok and we had a good going date, and she even texted she had a realy great time next day but when i asked for a next time she said she was already dating with someone else aswel and didnt had the guts to tell me about it(it turned out shes now a lesbian since i didnt remove her on facebook). So stop shittalking about other subjects that dont lead to anything with her(it only creates a friendzone if you keep going at it to long), its time for you to meet her as soon as you can and find out if shes worthy for u or its time to move on to other girls. If you want to do it the best way and have some guts, call her tonight ask how her day was and if she has time the comming week (if she stil dodges your question you could say Listen, we are talking to eachother for a while now, do you want to meet me or not and dont make her change the subject, its the fastest way to get a response out). Hope this helps you, and dont wait forever. |
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| Author: | chills123 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 4:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
Meh... roleplaying.. don't really feel like doing that. I haven't really put much effort into this to be honest. When we talked on the site she was engaging at first. Shes just odd... you should see our convo, shes so like... happy all the time and feels like she wants to meet me but then doesn't.. its pretty confusing. Like late at night when she said she was tired and had work and dodged the question i told her to be just straight up with me and she like dodged that question too.. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 7:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
The importance of having multiple girls is so you don't get needy over one. Man you've done your part just walk step back now meet new girls she'll likely come around its happened to me many times. Girls want you when you move on. So move on for now and let her come to you maybe she will maybe she won't, but if she doesn't it won't matter because you have plenty of other girls on the go. You know what I'm saying? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 7:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me snatch her! |
Uh huh huh you said "snatch" |
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