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Author:  MBlackjack [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Text game with a dancer

I went out to the strip club with some friends last night and ended up getting a few numbers out of it. I spent my money at the bars and not on private dances or anything like that so I don't think the girls gave me their numbers to get more business. The first one had come by several times throughout the night and would give me a massage or talk for a little bit then keep working. Her and another girl tried to get me to pay for a dance with both of them, but I turned it down. However, before she left she came up and kissed me and asked for my number. When I got home I had a text that said "Hi. Sorry I was so forward in the club, but you're very attractive." she then gave me her real name and said I probably remembered her by her stage name.
Unfortunately I was very drunk by the time I got home and simply said "Hey, I'm glad you were. We should meet up sometime, I'd love to get to know you better." She hasn't responded to it so I'm assuming it was a poor response (or she really was just trying to get more contacts for business). My question is basically what are some strategies for texting a dancer so I can handle the other girl and future ones better?

Author:  Dragula [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 4:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text game with a dancer

You must be a handsome fella

Let's burn him everybody !

Author:  Zack Ripley [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 9:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text game with a dancer

As someone who has dated exotics before, strippers are the flakiest women on the planet.

IF you got her real number (exotics that have danced for more than a year typically have a burner phone as well) and IF she sees you as more than a customer, then she MAY meet up with you.

This part is very important... pay the fuck attention padawan...

Take her out for DRINKS. Not dinner, not a movie, not fucking coffee. DRINKS.

This is the only way you will get this girl. If she goes out with you for drinks, you can fuck her on the first date, and she will date you OR you can friend zone her and get her to be a fuck buddy. Exotics make good fuck buddys, but terrible girlfriends.

If she flakes, and says she wants you to "meet her at the strip club" so you can "hang out" while she "works" she thinks you're a chump and just wants you to become a regular.

Other than that, as far as text game goes, remember that as soon as she's off work, she's just a regular chick. Treat her like one. Don't bring up stripping (they actually prefer "dancing") or her job, and just pretend she's a normal girl. Because she is.

Author:  MBlackjack [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 5:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Text game with a dancer

What got me was that she didn't reply at all. While I realize it probably wasn't the best response I didn't think it was THAT awful. Would it be, as you said, that she's just that flaky?
Additionally, the girl told me she was 20 so in that instance what could be done instead of going out for drinks?

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