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| Author: | JTQatar [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Advice for female friend |
Hey guys. I need your opinion on something. A girl-friend of mine is a bad situation. She used to be a happy always smiling girl and i really like her a lot (as a friend!) but now she fell for the wrong guy and her situation gets worse and worse every day. Here is a short back story: She fell in love with a guy i used to know quite well. He is an absolut player and a great great example of a natural. He is dumm as fuck, stupid, and will most likely never reach anything in life. But he is very good looking and fucks all his girls proper. At least from what i heard (from the girls obviously). Anyways...This girl i am talking about was just another victim. He fucked her on the second date and after that she left her boyfriend and wanted a relationship with this guy. He said "Sure i want a relationship with you too" But of course he just told her that to keep her interested and to keep her as a fuck buddy. When she started to try to lock him down to a commitment and wanted him to stop caring and stop looking for other girls he got pissed and basically cut her off.He is now completely ignoring her. She still thinks they have a relationship but they never really had one of course. She really loves him and she just cant understand that they will never get back together and that he never loved her. But she is still hoping for him to change. But obviously he is just stringing her along. I told her to fucking stop contacting him and to let go of him. But she says she cant. She says he is the one and she wants nobody else but him blah blah blah.... Now how can i help her? Or what can i tell her to help her out of this situation? Its getting worse every day and i really like her and i dont want to see her that sad. Its really bad to see a person who used to be everybody´s cute and happy smilie, literally dying a bit more every day. She eats and drinks almost nothing, she started smoking again, she cant be happy anymore and is always sad....I really like her a lot as a human being (not sexually at all! Even though she is a solid 8!) but im really concerned because i feel like i have to let her go if she is not changing because i dont need that negative and sad people in my life... |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 8:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice for female friend |
Don't try to change or help her, listen to her and be her friend, dont invest any emotional capital in this, it won't end well. |
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| Author: | JTQatar [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 8:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice for female friend |
Im not investing much. I just dont want to see her sad and afflicted like that. But i guess there is not much i can do to help her then... I guess she has to realize it on her own one day. Its such a shame because she is such a great girl she could easily have 10 other dudes who do not treat her like shit... |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice for female friend |
people have pathological needs not based on logic, if shes halfway attractive and choosing to be with an asshole over a "good guy" then that's what she wants to do, even if it's caustic. |
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