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| Author: | towelsurfer [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 10:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | how should i play this? |
so there's this girl that's been riding the same bus route as i do. today she sat down behind me (not because she likes me) and i started a conversation with her. we talked for the whole 40 minutes it took to get to our destination, and it went pretty well. the problem is, she's 20 (turns 21 in a few months) so i can't invite her to the bars to hang out, and neither of us have a car so it's going to be pretty hard to get her to meet up with me to do other things. i didn't ask her for her number, not that i was too shy or anything, i just thought i'd be coming off too strong if i put myself in a position to have to call/text her all the time when i'm going to be seeing her a lot anyways. now the question is, do i get her number next time and try to get her to come drink at my place or something, or would it be smoother to just talk to her whenever i see her on the bus until she actually wants to hang out with me? i'm 25 btw so the age difference isn't too bad |
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| Author: | Benji89 [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 2:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how should i play this? |
Perhaps talk about movies and figure out one you both haven't seen. try and get a meet together where you say something along the lines of "I'll buy the movie, drink and popcorn and you can provide the cinema". You could have a date at her place. I'm sure she'd be much more at comfort at hers. But this is only a suggestion. Benji89 |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how should i play this? |
Don't worry, asking for a number is almost never "coming on too strong". That's a very minor thing and most women think nothing of it. Now, having her over for drinks immediately might be coming on a little too strong since she doesn't know you very well outside of random girl chat on the bus. Get her number, give her a call that night (or the next day depending on what your schedule is like), then meet her out for late-night appetizers. THEN have her come back to your place for drinks. Then you can fuck. |
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| Author: | towelsurfer [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 1:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how should i play this? |
none of us have a car though so movies/appetizers are out of the question unless we go on the bus during the day. which is lame |
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| Author: | ChimeranPanda [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how should i play this? |
"you could be a little bit less obvious, you know" hb: what? "checking me out and everything." continue with leading questions like, "are you a good cook?" or "you're cute, where are you from?" |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 1:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how should i play this? |
If you don't have any form of transportation then you'll either have to settle for public transportation or walking. Surely there's a way around this issue considering millions of people are in your same position and still make it work. Quote: "you could be a little bit less obvious, you know"
I don't see the relevance.
hb: what? "checking me out and everything." continue with leading questions like, "are you a good cook?" or "you're cute, where are you from?" |
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