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Author:  CESARE [ Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Got confused...

Ok guys, I'm a bit confused now...

By watching the PUA's channels on youtube I thought that this were essentially the steps a guy has to do to manage to have a girl:

1)Overcome approach anxiety
2)Open a conversation
3)Make her feel confortable
4)Make her understand your intensions and make her feel confortable with it
5)Kino escalation
6)k-close/f-close

(This is of course NOT all what you have to do, but the (pretty much) simplyfied guideline I made for myself)

Am I wrong on something here? Cause I thought that pretty every pua was agreeing with this, but apparently not everyone here does... I'd like to have some suggestion for you guys on it...

PS: I made this kind of guideline for helping me to start with pickup and semplify things. I don't expect it to be perfect :)

Author:  JPAC1123 [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 1:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got confused...

You gotta get female-to-male attraction and male-to-female attraction in there somewhere. It's important to establish both before you worry about making her feel comfortable. Also, kino escalation comes after mutual attraction but before comfort.

Author:  CESARE [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got confused...

How can you escalate if she isn't confortable with it?

Author:  activemystery1 [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got confused...

Take things slow and work her up, then escalate again. If she's still not comfortable you may be doing something wrong. I think a crucial step most guys are missing in their game is building rapport. You should check out Kezia Nobels Deep Connection DVD and it talks about a method called the Iceberg in order to build rapport, that was a game changer for me.

It helped me to place pickup into certain steps when I first started HOWEVER, try not to go about it so analytically like I did. The more you read and study then the more you will realize that being a PUA is an art.

Author:  CESARE [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got confused...

I'm going to get some information on that. Thanks!

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