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| Author: | jclout [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need help with this girl, hard to read |
So I'm in this group living situation and two new girls came in the other day, I was chatting them up and after isolating one we got on real well. I was dropping hints left and right and I'm feeling her...I feel like she was feeling me the past couple days but lately she's seeming more distant and not as responsive. What I'm going for is some sort of mutual attraction going on and I feel like I'm fcking up a little bit. Today she was seeming really put there not her usual self so I asked what was up and didn't get much of an answer. I Dont wanna be chasing her but I feel like if I'm not initiating some type of interaction then there won't be any. Its hard to isolate and get her alone as well. I'm just really stuck and Dont really know what my next move should be. The kino is there and when I make eye contact with her its easy to get her to smile but I feel like she likes me then shortly after I feel like she doesn't if someone could give me tips or some advice it'd be cool I feel like we have similar personalities but somehow I feel like in fucking up either by over thinking the situation or what...I'm just trying to go with the flow |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help with this girl, hard to read |
Quote: So I'm in this group living situation and two new girls came in the other day, I was chatting them up and after isolating one we got on real well. I was dropping hints left and right and I'm feeling her...I feel like she was feeling me the past couple days but lately she's seeming more distant and not as responsive. What I'm going for is some sort of mutual attraction going on and I feel like I'm fcking up a little bit. Today she was seeming really put there not her usual self so I asked what was up and didn't get much of an answer. I Dont wanna be chasing her but I feel like if I'm not initiating some type of interaction then there won't be any. Its hard to isolate and get her alone as well. I'm just really stuck and Dont really know what my next move should be. The kino is there and when I make eye contact with her its easy to get her to smile but I feel like she likes me then shortly after I feel like she doesn't if someone could give me tips or some advice it'd be cool I feel like we have similar personalities but somehow I feel like in fucking up either by over thinking the situation or what...I'm just trying to go with the flow
Well she isn't going to initiate shit, so you better stop 'going with the flow' and get sexual, confidant, and make a move!
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| Author: | jclout [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 9:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help with this girl, hard to read |
Thanks for the reply, I know that. By initiating I mean just us talking in general...she doesn't really go out of the way to talk to me but I guess she does make herself available at times I'm just confused its hard to get a good read on her |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 9:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help with this girl, hard to read |
It sounds as though you are having trouble/fear of engaging her in front of others? Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. Never be afraid to be loud, be afraid to have no voice. Never be afraid of the thoughts of others, be afraid of not being true to who you are. |
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| Author: | jclout [ Tue Feb 04, 2014 4:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help with this girl, hard to read |
Thanks man I've just readopted the not give a fuck about it attitude that I normally have and I've been doing well I jus have some preoccupation and oneitis issues I gotta work on and its a lot easier when I say to myself "who cares you're a stud they want your balls anyways so fuck it, just keep bossing it up" and what do you know, it works |
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