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Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
Why don't girls don't mention her boyfriend even when they are supposed to?

I mean, there's this girl who flirts with me, but never mentions her boyfriend (i know she has one, because I forced her to say one time like asking does your boyfriend so and so? - and she looked bored talkig about him). I've already asked her out 3 times and every time she had an excuse about being busy (only the first time she said IDK and blushed like a school girl, but never said she can't go because she has a boyfriend. Yet she continue to flirt, let me touch her arms, leg and even her face and kiss her cheeks in a sensual way. What's up with those girls like that, are they just teasing?


PS: I heard (trough a friend that knows them) that her boyfriend is spending 4 years in another state because of some work related thing. She has become more flirty since that (guys have told me to ask her out because they think she's into me). But nothing has hapenned yet.
Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 1:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this girl (who has a boyfriend) just a tease?
Anyone, I'll probably see her again today... Don't know how to behave.
Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
I've changed the topic to a more generic question to make it more helpful for everyone.
Author:  anthonypham [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
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Why don't girls don't mention her boyfriend even when they are supposed to?
What do you mean, that they are supposed to???

If a girl has a bf, but does not mention, means the following:
1. she wants to cheat;
2. she wants to have fun and gives you a shot
3. She doesn't have a bf, and will only mention bf if she wants to get rid of you (when your game goes soft)

I think in your situation, she likes the catcalling, the attention she is receiving from you. Still your game is not tight enough to hook up. But it is not worse enough, that she wants to use 'i have a bf' to scare you away.

Now it is time for you to decide: are you a PUA or an AFC?
if you are a PUA, you don't care whether or not she has a bf. You just keep on going gaming her. I must say your game is getting loose a bit, tighten up mate! Flirt/tease/neg her. If you do it well, you might get her and there is no bf at all. If you don't do it well, then suddenly the bf shows up......

Good luck bro!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
Who cares if she has a boyfriend? Why are you even bringing that up?

If you ask her, you are giving her a chance to say yes. (meaning giving her a reason to get away from you) If you don't even bother, you wait for her to bring the issue up... then you still don't care anyways!
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
Because she wants the D without the R.

"Give it to me... Uh!"
Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 10:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
Quote:
Quote:
Why don't girls don't mention her boyfriend even when they are supposed to?
What do you mean, that they are supposed to???

If a girl has a bf, but does not mention, means the following:
1. she wants to cheat;
2. she wants to have fun and gives you a shot
3. She doesn't have a bf, and will only mention bf if she wants to get rid of you (when your game goes soft)

I think in your situation, she likes the catcalling, the attention she is receiving from you. Still your game is not tight enough to hook up. But it is not worse enough, that she wants to use 'i have a bf' to scare you away.

Now it is time for you to decide: are you a PUA or an AFC?
if you are a PUA, you don't care whether or not she has a bf. You just keep on going gaming her. I must say your game is getting loose a bit, tighten up mate! Flirt/tease/neg her. If you do it well, you might get her and there is no bf at all. If you don't do it well, then suddenly the bf shows up......

Good luck bro!
"Supposed to" meaning I asked her out 3 times already and she did not mention him.
I know she has a boyfriend. Option 3 does not exist.

All right, thanks. Do you think I should ask her out again when I step up my game? Wouldn't it be a little desperate to ask her out a 4th time?

PS: I see her everyday. We go to a spanish class together (with a lot of people). No. I'm not from Uruguay, just like the country and its soccer.
Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
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Who cares if she has a boyfriend? Why are you even bringing that up?

If you ask her, you are giving her a chance to say yes. (meaning giving her a reason to get away from you) If you don't even bother, you wait for her to bring the issue up... then you still don't care anyways!
I only brought him up once. Said that she got her life set, no surprises already, praticley engaged. She said she was not engaged and does not think of getting married for now (she's 24). And she sounded uncomfortable talking about him.

She never even mentioned him since. But still would not go out with me. And after I asked her out the last time, she still comes to me smiling and doing small talk.
Author:  south_uruguay [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
By the ways, two guys have asked if I was banging her, because they think she's clearly into me.
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 12:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
clearly she into you, Now here comes the moral part of the whole thing. Do you want her to cheat on her b/f with you? cause in the long run if she does and you happen to go into a relationship later , just keep in mind that if she cheats on you, you would have no grounds to be mad. It takes two to tangle so, as a famous quote from a movie " is the juice worth the squeeze?" be aware of the drama that it might bring along. on the other hand, it could be discreet and no one would know ( but from the previous post, i dont think thats going to happen since everyone thinks you are banging her already) words might get out to her now fiance.

She might of been using you to test her loyalty to her own relationship that being a long distance one to. That attraction is still there for you, so she will flirt and do the ususal stuff you let her do but basicly you have been friendzoned.
Author:  south_uruguay [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
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clearly she into you, Now here comes the moral part of the whole thing. Do you want her to cheat on her b/f with you? cause in the long run if she does and you happen to go into a relationship later , just keep in mind that if she cheats on you, you would have no grounds to be mad. It takes two to tangle so, as a famous quote from a movie " is the juice worth the squeeze?" be aware of the drama that it might bring along. on the other hand, it could be discreet and no one would know ( but from the previous post, i dont think thats going to happen since everyone thinks you are banging her already) words might get out to her now fiance.

She might of been using you to test her loyalty to her own relationship that being a long distance one to. That attraction is still there for you, so she will flirt and do the ususal stuff you let her do but basicly you have been friendzoned.
Thanks for the reply. I'm confused. Your first paragraph makes me think I still have a shot. But the next one you say I've been friendzoned. Can I still get this girl?

I'm not going to lie that I like her. It's just not some girl I want to fuck. And why do you think she has not mentioned her boyfriend even when I ask her out?
Author:  south_uruguay [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 11:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
I have walked her home some times (she lives close to the place). When we arrive at her place, I slowly kiss her cheeks. Should I just risk it and go for the kiss on the lips?
Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
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I have walked her home some times (she lives close to the place). When we arrive at her place, I slowly kiss her cheeks. Should I just risk it and go for the kiss on the lips?
yes
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 5:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. Sounds like she's looking for some dick when her bf is gone. Go for it and stop mentioning him.
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Tue Feb 04, 2014 2:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't girls mention they have a boyfriend?
Quote:
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clearly she into you, Now here comes the moral part of the whole thing. Do you want her to cheat on her b/f with you? cause in the long run if she does and you happen to go into a relationship later , just keep in mind that if she cheats on you, you would have no grounds to be mad. It takes two to tangle so, as a famous quote from a movie " is the juice worth the squeeze?" be aware of the drama that it might bring along. on the other hand, it could be discreet and no one would know ( but from the previous post, i dont think thats going to happen since everyone thinks you are banging her already) words might get out to her now fiance.

She might of been using you to test her loyalty to her own relationship that being a long distance one to. That attraction is still there for you, so she will flirt and do the ususal stuff you let her do but basicly you have been friendzoned.
Thanks for the reply. I'm confused. Your first paragraph makes me think I still have a shot. But the next one you say I've been friendzoned. Can I still get this girl?

I'm not going to lie that I like her. It's just not some girl I want to fuck. And why do you think she has not mentioned her boyfriend even when I ask her out?

sorry for the confusing ,I should of put # in front for the two possible situations you might be in. For a fact she wants you.
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