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| Author: | Lumi [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Wingirl advice? |
I'll try make this fast. I moved country about 8 months ago. Went out with someone for 4 months. Just got my Ass dumped on New Year for basically not letting her talk to other guys. IMO she was green lighting them to open her. Dumped her a few times for this but pussied out and kept letting her back. Before this there was a friend of another group who I can tell we had a connection with, problem was the other 3 guys who introduced the group all liked her to and it started causing drama. Now I'm single this girls (shes 26 i'm 29) keeps hinting to go out and just asked to go out on the weekend. So I've friend zoned her and she said she will wing girl me. And ill do the same. So we arranged to go out Saturday. Would you set some boundries on this? like i've never used a girl to wing for me. And tbh any male up here says they'll wing but really there acting like competition. They've no intention on learning game, so im not going to try to explain things. Although it would be cool just to "date" and see where it goes with her, but I think the long run it going to work better with some hot girls who are just Friends. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 11:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wingirl advice? |
First mistake, you didn't let her talk to others. That displays jealousy, which is not a good thing. You need to work on that, trust your girl and let her talk to anyone she likes. Be confident. Second mistake, trying to get revenge by dumping her!? Where do you think that would take your relationship? About having her as a winggirl... I'm not sure about the vibes between you two, but there is a chance/risk that she actually wants you back, and that she will be hurt and become jealous if you actually hit on other girls in front of her, causing more drama. I wouldn't do it if I were you. My recommendation is that you make up your mind, do you want her or not? Then go for it 100%, whatever you choose. All or nothing. No half-measures. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wingirl advice? |
Quote: First mistake, you didn't let her talk to others. That displays jealousy, which is not a good thing.
Not only jealousy... But insecurity and possessiveness too!How are you gonna go out and use a girl as your wing/wing for her when you can't even bare to look at another guy talking to her and not freak out?! Unless you're trying to freak out on her again, I'd suggest you not use this particular girl as a "wing" nor wing for her... |
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