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Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzone
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Author:  Silver_Lancer [ Wed Jan 29, 2014 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzone

This girl from my work is giving me hell to game her.

I did everything by the book. Acted alpha, used push/pull, complimented her, negged her, qualified myself, did some kino, used sexual talk, and it got me nowhere! And I mean I did absolutely everything right like you guys say!

She started working there some two months after I got into PUA and by that time I had a pretty decent game with a few success stories under my belt. I had undergone a major makeover less than a month before. Renewed my wardrobe, changed my hairstyle, got contact lenses and started hitting the gym.

All that gave me a pretty good confidence boost. I notice I walk with confidence, I take up space, my friends say I look a lot more confident.

At work, even though I am the second newest employee (my target is the newest) I am the manager's "protege" and right hand man. I have lunch at the "officer's table", as we call it, with the manager, the section bosses and the rest of the senior staff. I am the youngest and newest emplyee in my section and still when we recieved two temporary interns they were put under my comand and talk highly of me. My target also worked for me for a little while and I was always a fair leader ready to take one for the team.

I am pretty much the poster of an AFC to Alpha Male transformation.

I make her laugh a lot. I'm the guy she comes to when she has a problem. We have pretty good chemestry. She does not refuse kino (haven't done much because I don't want the people in the office to start talking) and on a group setting she talks more to me and fights others for my attention.

But still I just can't get her to go on a date with me. She always flakes and I just can't break out of the friendzone.

Does anyone have an opinion on what went wrong?

Author:  Il-Cavalieri [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzon

Well... Sometimes things happen, sometimes they don't.

As you said, you did everything "by the book", so now you have two options: You come clean and tell her you are intersted in her and all that, wich may make things awkward since you work together. Or you just keep doing what you are doing and maybe she changes her mind. Sometimes girls need some time to deal with whatever shit they have going on and may end up changing her mind about you.

Either way, use what you have learned to game other girls, wich I assume you are doing already, and make sure gaming this one do not interfere with that.

Author:  Benji89 [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzon

Adam Lyons literally posted this less than a day ago.
Your 'not much kino' seems to be the problem..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccCCjvxPf-8

Now go get her!
:)

Author:  Skyrock3t [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzon

I think you should completely freeze her out.

I mean not really ignoring her but show disinterest on every level, the friendship as well as attraction level. And she should see you with other girls etc. Make her the feel of "fear of loss".

When you talk to her (like without any interest, just small talk) you should mention the really beautiful but annoying girl in the gym that is always following you while you are doing your workout etc. And tell it in a very funny/enthusiastic way.

Hope it helps

Edit: and after she will then seek your validation etc after a couple of time, then you should start all over again with your game and this time integrate kino.

Cheers

sky
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Author:  neo87 [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did everything right and still ended up in the friendzon

Maybe she just doesn't want to date someone she works with.

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