Hey guys... once again, need some help from you. Let me tell you my story first. I'll try to keep it short, so you won't be like "Didn't read LOL"
So I was in relationship with girl, let's call her Anna. It was going pretty well for some time however some problems were there. I was able to handle them well. During this relationship I met Katie. I friendzoned her cause she didn't seem to be type of girl that I would date. She was giving me some IOIs, but still she was one of many friends I have. But one week, there was family tragedy and I lost 4 family members at once. I was crushed. And as I was really in shit, then Katie showed her real side. One day with friends she noticed, that I'm not in my skin. So she grabbed me, pulled me away from everyone and asked what was up. I was trying to dismiss this talk, but she didn't let me. So I told her. Since then, she was all around me, distracting me and so on. [Note: We had lot of comfort, kino and hell of IOIs with Katie since then] I realized pretty soon that she is way much better than Anna. I broke up with Anna as I wasn't truly happy with her and I went after Katie. After few weeks I recovered from all the bad stuff and put myself together again. Mainly thanks to Katie. So I made move (tried to kiss her) ... but... got REJECTED! She said it's complicated between us, but that there is some chance one day (my personal translation is PURE FRIENDZONE). But she continues to set up lunches, walks, meeting, initiates convo and so on. However, truth is, that I developed some feelings for her and I can't be just friend but also, I don't feel like freezing her after all that.
So do you guys know how to escape this pitty hole? Ignore, just wait or freely attack with every PU weapons that I have? anyway... I know that whatever I do, I can loose her, but doing nothing will slowly kill me...
PS: LOL hope it's not too long for lazy readers...
