Background - Nov 30
I met an HB9 model through a group of my friends a few years ago at a nightclub. We never really connected or talked at the time, mainly because I was in a long term relationship. Well, now I've been single for a few years and we met again at our mutual friend's birthday party at the end of November and exchanged numbers. She seemed really interested.
Date #1 - Dec 4
We went hiking together a few days later, about Dec 4th, and actually got lost because the sun went down lol. She was showing good kino and doing things such as suggesting that we take our clothes off and do a dip in the hot springs.
Date #2 - Jan 11
We both travelled a lot, plus I have other girls on the side obv, so HB9 and I didn't hang out again until about Jan 11th. She initiated by inviting me out to get drunk with her at a local bar with her friends, to which I obliged. I was sober enough to drive, but she wasn't, so we left her car there and I drove her to my place. She was too drunk for me to feel morally okay about pushing her to do anything so I let her pass out in my bed and I went to sleep. She had to work in the morning, so I dropped her off and went back to bed.
Date #3 - Jan 23
On Jan 23rd we were texting and I had her come over. We killed two full bottles of wine and ended up in my bed, wearing just underwear. We were making out and I put her hand on my dick while I fondled her boobs. Before I knew it, we lost momentum, maybe due to a bathroom break / state break, and she turned over as if she was going to sleep. Reinitiating proved to be extremely difficult, so again I just left everything be for the night and fell asleep.
Sample Text Messages
PUA: Hey you little troublemaker, whatcha up to
HB9: Hey yo
I'm home and you?
PUA: Gym getting sweaty
Okay I'll be right there
HB9: Yummmm
PUA: :)
HB9: :P
Are you playing racquetball or texting????
PUA: Just finished
HB9: Lol jk
PUA: Hungry, you?
HB9: Laying down NAKED
NOT HUNGRY
PUA: Ok I'll bring you eggplant (eggplant pic)
HB9: Lol not hungry
I need alcohol
Lol
Jk
PUA: Well you tired or you wanna hang out
HB9: We can
Where and when?
PUA: Something relaxing, wine and a movie
HB9: Sounds good
Actually
PUA: You have a DVD player, couch /bed?
HB9: No DVD
PUA: Then come to my place, pack a bag in case you fall asleep
HB9: My roommate is watching tv in the living room
Kk are you going to behave
I'm too irresistible
Lol
PUA: You've got a dirty mind
HB9: Nooooo
I don't
PUA: You should be so lucky to get some from me though, being I'm a virgin and all
HB9: Shut up
Are you home soon?
PUA: I just entered
HB9: Ok I have to get dressed and blow dry my hair
Date #4 - Jan 26
After getting off work, she texted me that she needed a drink, and asked if I wanted to get drunk with her later. Well, I really didn't want to drink too much as I drank really hard on Friday night and had to work in the morning, but I agreed to go out with her and have one or two drinks. Well, she ended up drinking pretty hard again, and must have had between 8 and 10 drinks during the night.
We got back to my place again, and this time she stripped down to her bra and panties within minutes. However, after doing so, she rolled onto her side/stomach again and pretty much looked like she fell asleep. I guess she drank too much again?!? I tried making some moves, but she didn't budge, so I gave up, and was pissed.
She woke up again a few hours later, talking coherently and asked "Did I pass out on you? I'm sorry..." We started making out, I put her hand on my dick, and started rubbing her tits and pussy. She would turn toward me to make out, then back to her other side, so I would fondle her. This time, she started covering her tits with her arms and she crossed her leg over her pussy so I couldn't reach, and fell asleep. I'm seriously furious at this teasing.
This afternoon she texted me:
HB9: Funny that I always wake up naked next to you!
Additional Info
My text and phone game is pretty solid. I'm always baiting her and escalating her sexual thoughts, sending funny/sexual memes, and working on a sexual meetup. She asks me questions like "Can I get you drunk?" and I go directly into lines about taking advantage of me and having her way with me, etc. She always answers with something like "maaybeee"
Sample Text Messages
PUA: What are you doing?
HB9: Laying in my bed naked
PUA: I like the sound of that.. mmmm
HB9: Hahaha
Buy me some stockings
MEOW
PUA: Jump off a cliff
WOOF
Additionally, never once have I indicated or mentioned that she is the only girl I'm seeing. The opposite may be true in fact, where I mention that we should grab another girl for a threesome, or that I'm in an open relationship with a girl, etc.
Sample Text Messages
HB9: Did you invite everyone in snapchat to drink?
PUA: No
HB9: Just me?
PUA: Nope!
All my sexy ladies
HB9: (broken heart emoticon)
Cheater
PUA: Hahaha
Shutup and come
My Personal Reflection
I'm all about self-reflection, and writing this post alone has caused me to reflect a little bit. Come to think about it, she has mentioned "cuddling" and "snuggling" a few times, and only "maayybee" to taking advantage of me. I never try to directly mention having sex via text message, unless its already escalated to that point, so maybe I will be more aggressive with that now that she's been naked in my bed a few times, I'm not sure yet.
At this point I need to either next her, or put it in her. I won't stand by and be teased. I'm on the verge of just telling her "So are we gonna fuck or what?" I don't care if she's a model, I have other girls I could spend my time on. Additionally, I don't want this girl getting attached and thinking I'll be her boyfriend. Does anyone have any material they can reference, or suggestions, on how I could handle that?