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Author:  Rebel69 [ Fri Jan 24, 2014 2:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl is touching you after the attraction phase

I know that after the opener or in A2 (MM) you should disqualify the kino she gives you.For example she touches you after the opener and you say "Don't touch the merchandise!" But after A3 or later in comfort when she know that you like her as well what should I do? I usually don't react to her kino,like I didn't even notice ,it's not a big deal that she touches me even If I know it's an IOI. So any ideals guys? Should I react with a pull or a push,or I should touch her as well in the same place? For sure I don't react to that with a push ,because it would be pretty weird if I am punishing her for the touch,but I'm open to any ideals. :D

Author:  hugge [ Fri Jan 24, 2014 8:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl is touching you after the attraction phase

Following MM is a bit stiff and not very flexible. Every technique is an observed behavior from a successful natural. So ask yourself how you can make every technique a part of who you are, naturally and more fluid.

Anyway, to answer your question... Depending on how you feel about the girl (you should always be congruent, remember?), your response to her touch should be accordingly. If you like her touch (which is a normal thing to do in the beginning), then smile back to her and give her some appropriate touch back (or even hug her if you want). This is a positive feedback on her IOI, which will probably make her escalate her IOIs. You just don't want to be too obvious yourself, so never give her more IOIs than you receive from her. If you feel she is too much and annoying (if she does it too many times, too much etc), push her away. If you want to be more conscious in your actions, try to be a little random in your respons. Pull sometimes, push sometimes ("oh, you just can't leave me alone, can you?" with a smile).

Author:  Rebel69 [ Sun Jan 26, 2014 12:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl is touching you after the attraction phase

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Following MM is a bit stiff and not very flexible. Every technique is an observed behavior from a successful natural. So ask yourself how you can make every technique a part of who you are, naturally and more fluid.

Anyway, to answer your question... Depending on how you feel about the girl (you should always be congruent, remember?), your response to her touch should be accordingly. If you like her touch (which is a normal thing to do in the beginning), then smile back to her and give her some appropriate touch back (or even hug her if you want). This is a positive feedback on her IOI, which will probably make her escalate her IOIs. You just don't want to be too obvious yourself, so never give her more IOIs than you receive from her. If you feel she is too much and annoying (if she does it too many times, too much etc), push her away. If you want to be more conscious in your actions, try to be a little random in your respons. Pull sometimes, push sometimes ("oh, you just can't leave me alone, can you?" with a smile).
Okay,thanks! I red something in this forum,who said you shouldn't give her a smile right after her touch.Because it's a little bit needy."Oh she's finally touching me ,awww!" So would it be the best if I give her an IoI but not immediately after her touch? Can I escalate from her kino or should I stay in her level and escalate from there?

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