yeah i've been there buddy short and vague makes them think and its powerful rather than giving them it all on a plate give them a little and make them work to achieve the rest if that makes sense
i did the same a while back but contrary to logical thinking you seem much more interesting when you are for lack of better wording 'mysterious'
glad it helped just resist the urge to call her if you really want to spike interest you can send something along the lines of
''hey i saw something that made me think of you, that's kind of funny''
basically gives them curiosity and also a ''excuse'' if you like to message you and ask what it is
i actually used this cause i saw a girl with the same shoes as my ex and the girl i was interested in rang me like 4 times in an hour i ended up texting saying i'll call you later im busy, and to ''reward'' the try harding i just said well its all good they look better on you
maybe food for thought 
and in response to CyberTiger:
firstly no offense taken, i do not claim to be awesome, its just my own observation,
He already made out with her. What was her motivation to go cold?
it could be any number of things, she could have talked to a friend and been called ''a slut'' for not having known him long enough, although he said he was seeing her for a few months which leads me to believe that it was potentially all one sided investment, with him chasing, perhaps getting too romantic too early , it could very well also be what you suggested.
Now she remembered him, remembered what it is like to be wanted thus called him up again, to fulfill her basic need of feeling sexy or getting rid of her insecurity.
She got enthusiastic because she needed the approval to her "being still desirable". As soon as she got it she went cold again of course.
Now how does our poor chump here manages to get her back to bagging for more without putting on too much sexual pressure as he did before?
Possibly, however i think its more than a need to feel sexy if they had been seeing each other for a few months although its true some girls like to keep guys around them to ''test potential'' if you like
Now to Sparks suggestion:
Cutting the time frame, why would this make a difference considering she already got what she came for and is satisfied at the moment.
I'd say it is way more important at the moment to get her basically attracted again.
BUT
Is this really achieved by just jumping in her mind via text/call for 5 minutes then running away with a BS excuse which she will know is fake, since she is obviously human and don't flatter yourself she can think too. She plays like that probably too so, I'd suggest not going to use such a primitive approach strategy.
Sparks I think your advice is good in a context-frame where you just met the girl or aren't acquainted too much where the pretense should be to build an aura of mystery of having a full life bla bla bla faking, creating a smoke screen, stuff that's basically worthless out of a certain context.
I'd say what has to be done in this context-frame is to build up her basic want of being secured by a male/feeling the urge to mate with a potential protector
How to achieve that by cutting times or keeping answers short on the phone eludes me completely I'm afraid.
If he distances himself a little and relaxes a little and makes her chase he has definitely got the possibility to further it from where it was,
Remember: Men think LOGICALLY
Women feel EMOTIONALLY
you have a good point with regards to the games YES she does this all the time, but she is an emotional creature, its not like us where as now we are sitting thinking hmm why? she will be thinking a host of other things from a simple shift in approach, so weather they know it or not it will still run through their mind even if its bs and they know it ofc you need to confidence to back it up but her thought process will probably be along the lines of:
oh.. i guess im not as interesting to him as i thought,
was he really busy?
did he just not want to talk to me?
what did i do wrong?
am i boring?
what is he doing?
where is he?
who is he with?
why didnt he tell me more?
all of tat while on the surface looks negative what is on her mind the whole time? (he) for the most part and secondly (competing for the attention) (Her)
simple tactic = (Her) thinking about (Him)
on an emotional level
i see it as more of an odd test, ive had girls i have been sexual with suddenly do this and i simply do the above, they will wonder why its so cold, why we dont wanna talk to them, why we arent bothered, why we haven't called, did we go off them, do we not find them attractive any more, and a host of other things even a female that you have only met once, making them chase and you the ''prize'' if you like, not only entices, excites, and emotionally draws a woman in but in itself also builds interest,becasue if she is doing all of this emotionally, she will begin to feel emotionally attracted as she is ''invested with interest''
Crazy as it sounds simply toning it down a little and reversing the invested interest can work wonders, as a woman loves to chase, they love a challenge if you give them that they will follow up on it in a sense (dangling a carrot just out of reach)
i hope that makes sense as i said its simply my own observation, but if its unclear or you want some clarification let me know
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