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| Author: | Rancor90 [ Thu Jan 23, 2014 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Im not sure I want this any more. Or she doesn't want me? |
Rewind 4 months ago and this girl from my college class broke up with her boyfriend. Her friends told me she had a crush on me for years. we start texting and chatting and hook up a number of times when we where drunk. she ask me out on two dates and flaked both times. I called her out on it saying that I'm not being messed around like this your still not over your ex, which she admitted. a few weeks later she asked me out again and I made her set concrete plans letting her no this was her last chance. Two days before we where ment to go out I saw her in town again. Her friends spoke to me saying how she hasn't stopped talking about me and she's really into me. she came running over and we spent the whole night together. she was telling me how she's so over her ex and wished she had got with me from day one of college. I didn't go back to hers as her sister and friends where down. she continued to text me after she got home asking me who I was with and checking up on me. fast forward two days later the day we arranged to meet, and I told her I was gunna be 15 mins late. she text me back saying I'm not sure If I want this anymore, I think I want to be on my own till we graduate, I'm overloaded with college work and we only have one semister left, i'm sorry if I hurt you. which is true and I live 300 miles away. however, how can her feeling change so much in 2 days? to me this says I just dont want a realtionship with you? maybe I was just the rebound guy? or maybe she is being honest and thats how she feels but I know when a girl likes me nothing will stop them. I also think she isnt over her ex, who has moved on though and has a gf. I know she has some deep personal issues, but this really came out the blue, I thought she was really into me. Im just wondering from what ive wrote whats your guys take on this? I dont want to try and get her back I just want to understand her mind set a little and learn from this. Thanks |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Jan 23, 2014 3:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Im not sure I want this any more. Or she doesn't want m |
Just nod and agree and keep communication open. Meanwhile get your dick wet. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jan 23, 2014 3:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Im not sure I want this any more. Or she doesn't want m |
Girls are fucking weird and impulsive and emotional dude. It happens. You guys sound kind of young, to boot. As quickly as she changed her mind she could change it back again - and if you're interested in going along for the ride, just say "yep, sounds good" and let her keep in touch with you as she pleases. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Thu Jan 23, 2014 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Im not sure I want this any more. Or she doesn't want m |
I was gonna say the exact same thing. Keep communication open don't be a dick, but move on to other girls and see what happens with her down the road. I've dated some crazy impulsive girls before that's change their mind more often than their clothes its their nature dude. Good luck!! |
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